2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
What does a relationship give besides a headache, a waste of energy, money and time? In the last two centuries, the problem of intersexual relations has become aggravated among mankind. Men are not confident in their own strengths, and women doubt their choice.
Once, while reading a book, I saw an excellent description of the relationship between a man and a woman in the modern world. The book is set in the future, this should be taken into account while reading.
“In the last two centuries, the problem of intersexual relations has become aggravated among mankind. Men ask why do I need a woman? I can cook, wash, clean and even give birth myself. And the question of sex is nowhere easier to solve. And women think, why do I need a man? From him only problems. He must be watched, caressed, loved, cleaned, and generally made so that he looks more like a man than a monkey in a suit. The need for sex and attention can be fulfilled in another way. And both begin to devote themselves to work, favorite business, hobby, or burn their nerves with doubts about choosing such a position. But both sides of the conflict lie to themselves.
Men are not confident in their own strengths, thinking that relationships are primarily problems. That he will not be able to satisfy her, will receive a refusal, there will not be enough money for courtship. All that concerns women, he associates with problems that can be avoided by giving up the relationship.
Women doubt the choice of a man, or whether she is worthy of him and therefore is afraid to make hints. And then she starts to work on herself. Fitness, diet, beautician, good clothes. Looking beautiful and attractive becomes a way of life. But it is this way of life, this beauty that inspires men with insecurity in their own strengths, the fear of approaching. A man subconsciously fears a woman who is more successful than himself. And this is what gives rise to all the problems. A man thinks about whether he can be equal to such a girl, support a family, resolve conflicts. And the girl wonders why no one approaches her, who is all sorts of thugs who are not afraid of anything at all. Maybe she's not pretty enough? And so a wall begins to grow between people who want to be together. A man loses confidence with every refusal to himself, shown cowardice. Girls lose confidence over time, because no one approaches her, does not invite her on a date. The wall of misunderstanding is growing."
Chrysalis series. Limitless. From Saji's message.
Someone may object, but what about feelings, love? Well, yes, people fall in love, get married. And when feelings pass, the question arises, why do I live with this person? What does his presence in my life give me besides a headache and a waste of energy, money and time? And then either the answers to these questions are found, or the couple breaks up. As statistics say, most often the answers are not found. So, according to her, now in Russia every second registered marriage is dissolved."
And the conclusion? Let everyone make a conclusion for himself.