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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
Enough illusions, silly dreams and speculations about fate. Each of us has only two paths in life. You too will have to make your choice. You can only choose one thing: live an ordinary life or be happy. “Choose the blue pill, the story ends, you wake up in your bed and live your normal life. Pick a red pill and I'll show you how deep the rabbit hole is.”Morpheus from The Matrix.
Enough toil with nonsense, we have very little time for you. It's time to decide, do you wake up in your bed and live a normal life, or are we going to change something? Choose the blue pill and do not read the article further, but you can choose the red one and continue reading.
“What difference does it make who is stronger, who is smarter, who is more beautiful, who is richer? After all, in the end, it only matters whether you are a happy person or not? " Osho
How to be happy
1. Find your favorite job
How to be happy? You will spend most of your adult life at work. There are 168 hours in a week, and 40 of them you will be there. Is work unpalatable, unrewarding, and unhappy? Doesn't allow circumstances to dictate terms to you. Follow your heart and intuition. Unloved work will make you unhappy. Find what you love!
2. Let go of the past
How to be happy? Why do you need to carry this stone on yourself? What is tormenting you from the past? Some girl left a mark on the soul and disappeared into time? Have you missed a good chance in the past? Whatever happens once, it cannot be returned. Enough. It's time to get rid of the extra load and move on light. There is only now your future.
3. Don't try to impress
How to be happy? Playing other people's roles and being someone else is exhausting. Stop trying to impress, meet other people's expectations, and please others. People truly value only sincerity and naturalness. Be yourself. Who do you like will stay close.
4. Get rid of negative people
How to be happy? Some people drain your energy. They make life harder and harder. Adjust your surroundings. There is no shortage of people in the world who will be like-minded people to you. Which will make you happy, not upset. This is especially important in choosing the second half.
5. Don't resist change
How to be happy? Stagnation in life is death ahead of time. Do you have aspirations, desires and dreams? Start changing your thinking and life itself. Move forward, and do not mark time, chewing snot. Don't resist change, but welcome it.
Stop doubting, comparing yourself with others, being insecure, complaining about life, hoping for a miracle, justifying yourself. You only have two paths. But most people are afraid to be happy. They choose the blue pill. At which the story ends, and they wake up in their bed and live their normal lives.
Will you choose the red pill or the coward, like most?