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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
When choosing a partner in your personal life, it is difficult to say which specific type attracts men the most. One prefers thin tall blondes, the second is gripped by plump brunettes, and the third is completely crazy about the mouth of impudent ladies with shaved temples and acid-colored hair. The taste and color of the markers are different.
But there is one type of girls who are most attracted to the views of the opposite sex. Such ladies can be seen from afar. Usually, the femme fatale is not only noted visually, but even felt by guys in a special way. What is the secret of these attractive and somewhat dangerous persons? Today I will introduce you to some female secrets.
Why are they attracted
If you ask this question to a randomly selected group of men, it turns out that they cannot formulate a clear answer. After all, this is not just about any specific set of external features. The femme fatale is an image carefully thought out to the smallest detail, in which there are no insignificant details. I still tried to collect the answers of the men together and identified several quite sensible, in my opinion, explanations:
Yes, these ladies are not boring people. As a rule, these women can always cause a stir on the part of the opposite sex. They are usually intellectually developed and are good conversationalists, which is very important when it is not about a one-night stand. The ability to support almost any topic of conversation is actually a gold mine, to which not all beautiful nymphs can get to the bottom. But in vain.
Winning the heart of such a girl is not easy. She easily knows how to twist guys and take advantage of their disposition to herself. When a man gets a femme fatale as a companion, he automatically becomes a super-male, not only in his own eyes, but also in the opinion of his entire inner circle.
I sometimes call it an easy jerk. Because a woman who is too simple cannot be of interest to her partner for a long time. Banality really kills feelings. But a little madness is fresh and intriguing.
You ask what you have for dinner tonight, and she has already brought home a flea cat from the street, burned down the entire kitchen and spent money on a new game console for both of you. Well, is it cool? Come on, I'm still exaggerating. I was usually content with just emotional instability.
The ability to take care of yourself
Almost every lady has this feature. But not everyone does it elegantly and in moderation. Femme fatale is capable of being sexy as hell even in a simple sweatshirt, no makeup, and glasses. But the blouse at the same time will boldly expose the shoulder and the protruding collarbone at the right time, the make-up is applied imperceptibly (everyday version) in order to correctly hide skin imperfections, and the eyepieces ideally emphasize the oval of her face.
Sometimes ladies overdo it with beauty, which, as you already know, is a terrible force. And this often has the opposite effect. Blood-red nails half the length of a wrist, an almost full bottle of expensive perfume, poured over a bust (by the way, it was made by the best surgeon in the city, yes), lips of immense size, painted with gloss.
Introduced such a beauty? And what's the rock here? Such girls become simply monotonous and unmemorable in the eyes of men. Today one with a bust and lips, tomorrow another, but with the same. The girls I am talking about today know the measure of beauty and know how to be purely individual without the use of plastic surgery. And yes, this really attracts guys more than two oiled dumplings on a doll's face.
The concept is very vague, since everyone has their own fetishes. But it is in the femme fatale that there is something wildly natural and natural, so that most of today's ladies have already lost. It can be light flirting or playful coquetry, perky laughter, boyish familiarity, trusting eye contact.
I can list endlessly, because in fact there are a lot of tricks. Such a girl literally smells of pheromones, and every gesture looks like a call to establish close contact (do not confuse an attempt to make eyes drunk on the part of a lady of not too heavy behavior somewhere in a bar). Men react to this on an instinctual level.
Signs of a femme fatale
So, we figured out the general features. Such a girl can have any appearance. But the set of internal qualities cannot be hidden anywhere. The femme fatale is, first of all, style and image, and only then hair color, height, weight and breast size. I want to offer you to familiarize yourself with several characteristic features of the beauties of the most attractive type for guys.
If Madame is like an open book for you, which you have already read 15 times while sitting in the toilet, then you cannot build a relationship with such a girl. Such persons quickly get bored with their predictability, laying out all the ins and outs on the first date, starting with cutting the umbilical cord and ending with yesterday's dinner preparation. Is it interesting to meet such a second time? I do not think.
But the femme fatale is never in a hurry to reveal all the cards to a man at once, laying them out on the gambling table strictly one at a time, teasing and flirting. Feels like a slightly visible lace elastic from stockings, from time to time appears in the section of a strictly office pencil skirt.
Fleur is always associated for the male with the desire to remove the wrapper from the candy and get to the bottom of the truth. As long as a woman creates the effect of innuendo, feelings for her will be constantly warmed up in automatic mode.
Lack of complexes
If you like exceptionally gray mice who are afraid to put on trousers because they think they have crooked legs, then I will disappoint you. A guy with similar hobbies does not have a high opinion of himself. After all, a woman without complexes must be held back with something so that she does not find a better male. It is to such a caste that the fatal ladies belong.
Here are some signs for you that you have in front of you a liberated woman without clamps and strict frames inside:
1. She does not hesitate to change positions in bed, as she does not think whether she was seen a little sagging barrel or not.
The girl simply enjoys intimacy, allowing her to enjoy her body the way you both like. By the way, you can not turn off the light with it either. Super, huh?
2. Not afraid to change clothes in front of you.
Imagine some women, even after spending a night of love together, kick you out of the room to pull on tights without prying eyes. The femme fatale won't bother with bullshit like that. She has long accepted her external shortcomings, resigned herself to them and offers the man what she has and can not go anywhere. I do not like? The door is to the left along the corridor. The next one will be invited.
3. Wears only clothes that are comfortable for her.
Even if a breathtaking mini, fishnet stockings and a jacket on bare breasts are in fashion (as I imagine, I will shudder), this girl will still wear the most comfortable turtleneck and trousers made of wool from some mountain alpaca. This is absolutely the right decision.
When a woman puts her own feelings first, she gains confidence and peace of mind. And when she begins to get nervous about constantly slipping stockings or a bustier bone biting into the right half of her breast (this is such an elongated bra, it is now often worn under a jacket, so you know), by the evening the lady will have only a twitching eye and a desire to kill everyone on their way, who dares to meet.
In this case, the absence of complexes in terms of appearance speaks of complete harmony with oneself. You will not notice in her eyes the panic about an insufficiently fitting blouse or a bra without a push-up. She's just fine, period. I liked myself in the mirror, so it will. And let the rest wrestle in heels and look like driven horses. Such a woman is always confident in her appearance, since she does not dress up for someone else, but at her own discretion.
4. It may well not be painted.
Only ladies who are too preoccupied with finding a partner put on tons of plaster and choose a shade of lipstick for an hour and a half so that their already pumped lips look even fuller. The femme fatale simply hides the flaws and emphasizes the benefits using the most natural techniques. At the same time, the shadows and lips can be bright, but it looks easy and unobtrusive, and not in the style of the saleswoman of the fish department of the 80s of the last century.
Isn't a girl like that worth hitting on her? Outwardly, it is simple and attractive. Inside there is an untied lover, for which it is not at all a problem to demonstrate to you an excellent knowledge of the Kama Sutra in detail.
The ability to present yourself is nothing compared to the further behavior after the first date. The femme fatale will never call you and interrupt you from work, offended that the gentleman did not deign to talk to her, having escaped from an important meeting. Many girls believe that this behavior shows the guy how much she is interested in him. In reality, a man simply does not know where to run and where to hide. This is how real paranoia will develop.
The woman, who is popularly called fatal, understands perfectly well that all people have the right to their own life, work, hobbies and rest. And she is also not so worried about whether the gentleman will call or not. If you liked it, then soon he will show up. No, so there is no need to impose. It is this logic that modern men like. I want to take care of such a girl, since the intrigue is constantly maintained, but how does she spend time there without him, the most charming and attractive.
Hobbies and hobbies
Any person must develop somehow. And this applies to girls no less than guys. Attractive appearance alone is not enough to hook a worthy partner. But the presence of interesting and non-trivial hobbies is immediately a plus in the karma of a woman as an entertaining personality.
A fatal girl who has her own hobbies will not have nothing to do and constantly demand attention to herself or whine that she is bored. It is always a pleasure to listen to such a lady, discuss hobbies and preferences with her, or even offer to join her. The presence of hobbies speaks of the inner development and independence of a person, the absence of fixation on his own ego.
Sense of humor
Who said that only men should entertain a partner? A good friend of mine always chose girls on the basis of whether they can joke great or not. When I clarified, what about the legs, butt, waist and so on (as in the song by Cord it sings), he grinned and replied that he would never be interested in a woman who is offended out of the blue and does not enter black humor.
But a person runs a large company and can afford any curvy model. Но нет, ему подавай именно роковую даму, способную поржать за компанию над какой-нибудь чернухой. And that, there is a certain logic in this.
A girl who can laugh at herself or distinguish a cruel banter from a harmless joke simply does not have psychological problems and trauma. She is confident in herself, not particularly dependent on someone else's opinion (the louder she expresses emotions, the more she does not care about others), sincere and can become an excellent companion. And what is sex without friendship? Didn't get up? Neighing, as they say, and bainki.
Why is this a sure sign that the femme fatale is in front of you? She knows exactly what to hook you with. Men love laughter, simplicity, the opportunity to chat and hang out together. And if this is still supported by high-quality sex, then in general there will be no price for such a woman.
Respect for yourself and others
Yes, I'm not just talking about sex. A cool figure and a desire to immediately jump into your bed is not an indicator of a woman that every adequate man dreams of (well, okay, he'll go for a ride with a beer once). But the awareness of oneself as a person is already more interesting.
A femme fatale will never be humiliated for the sake of something, be it a promising partner, a rich sponsor, or a deeply and purely beloved husband who consistently scratches his fists on her. If such a girl does not like something, she makes a volitional decision and simply refuses the reality that does not suit her. Simply because he respects himself, that's all.
But the reason for the attractiveness of such an individual is very simple. A man does not like forgiving rugs on which you can wipe your feet. It is customary to use such a woman for personal purposes, and then throw it away as something unnecessary. Love and respect? Fight for her? And why, when the girl herself does not see the value in herself.
When a guy realizes that she can leave at any moment, if he does not see her as a partner, the attitude changes dramatically. A vision of a woman as a person appears, since I do not want to lose her at all.
The femme fatale respects not only herself, but also the environment. Pay attention to how your new friend treats other people. If she shows frank disdain and looks at everyone exclusively from the height of her bird's eye view, it means that you are dealing with an ordinary arrogant simpleton who hardly achieved at least something in life herself.
I do not argue, appearance and figure are still very important for sympathy. However, it is the mind (the two-letter sexual organ) that has the attraction. Some men are intimidated by smart girls, as they worry about how they will look against the background of their more educated companions. But you're a normal guy, right? Otherwise, it's time to do something about your insecurities and complexes.
The femme fatale is not a bore and not an eternal schoolgirl with the syndrome of an eternal excellent student. She has a simple everyday communication style. However, with such a lady there will always be something to talk about. Yes, even after sex. Isn't it nice to get not only a mistress, but also a good companion?
An eternally confused and frightened girl, who for some reason suddenly threw her into a cruel and cold world, does not seem like a tasty prey for men. But anyone wants to have a decisive lady who is not afraid to demonstrate herself in any light. Well, at least in dreams. After all, not every man himself will pull the confident and strong spirit of Mademoiselle. For others, serve exclusively dandelion girls, who grab a stranglehold on their hand and really do not want to step back at least a step.
Fatal ladies are not afraid to communicate with the opposite sex, they look confidently and directly, they will never mistake rudeness for brutal flirting. This spurs the interest of the guys, as he himself admits in the process of heart-to-heart communication.
A little bit of narcissism
Healthy egoism must be present in every person. First of all, you need to love yourself. Otherwise, no one else will do it. The femme fatale always prioritizes personal comfort, safety and interests. Someone will now throw a tomato at me, they say, a real woman must live exclusively for her husband and children. Guys, live this way, not exist. Don't be confused. If our men loved the eternal victims with Stockholm syndrome, there would not be so many divorces in the country.
An unhappy and exhausted girl who gives all of herself to other people will never become an object of attention and passion. This is just a poor and permanently sad creature that can only be pitied. You really need to love yourself, only then the woman will begin to be appreciated and respected by others.
So, my dear friend, if fate pushed you against a femme fatale, get ready that she will never spit on her own interests in order to drop everything and rush to meet you. And this is normal, as well as a little selfishness on the part of a man. I play for both teams, believe me.
To be honest, I could write a lot more on this topic. But the main thing is to learn one thing. The femme fatale is simply an emotionally healthy, adequate and fulfilled personality. All the rest are infantile ladies with a bunch of complexes, psychological trauma and open gestalts. Do you want to find a worthy partner for life? Choose among the femme fatale girls. It's safe and not boring with them. Good luck!