2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
Long-term relationships are far more challenging than most people think. Usually they don't talk about it, but keeping love is much harder than winning a girl for yourself. Secrets of long-term good relationships.
In the first year they say: "If you leave, I will commit suicide." In the second year they say: "If you leave, it will hurt me, but I will survive." In the third year, they say: "If you leave, I will wash it with champagne." Frederic Beigbeder
Looking around, I see a lot of my friends who part with their halves in a month or a year or two. For some time they meet, confess their love, fuck, and then look for other candidates for their personal life. Long-term relationships are very rare these days. Few couples can withstand various storms. Almost everyone scatters, tries the relationship again and again. How to save love and feelings from the hardships of life?
How to keep love
See the best side
Is the glass half empty or half full? None of us are perfect. An optimist sees positive aspects in a person, and a pessimist sees negative ones. You should pay more attention to good traits and forgive small flaws. Look for the best in your half, and do not get hung up on small character problems that you have too.
Love conflicts
Criticism, neglect and ignorance can destroy any, even the most powerful love. Learn to compromise and deal with all this shit as adults. And not pimply hysterical teenagers, neglecting feelings and ruining everything in the heat of the moment.
Kiss and hug every day
Some lucky people have sex every day, but at least kiss and hug your girlfriend regularly. This will keep the relationship at a high level of trust and affection.
Little things of love
Fleeting signs of attention, care, sympathy, tenderness and gifts. Appreciate the little things that make up relationships and give them yourself. They allow you not to look for something missing on the side.
Make time for each other
Find time for romance, hanging out, relaxation and fun. Go to the movies, take a picnic, pop into a restaurant on your way home, gaze at the stars, or take a bath together.
Give compliments
Praise your half regularly. Give compliments and even flattery at the right time. Notice how beautiful she looks when she gets ready for work. Compliment her figure, logic and moral character. The girl is tempted every day. She should feel love and warmth at home, and not look for it from the outside.
Don't get locked into each other
Don't consume each other. Spend time apart more often. The way she goes to yoga, and he goes to the gym. Pursue your hobbies, interests and friends. Grow, develop and move on.
Confess your love and fuck
There is nothing more pleasant than hearing declarations of love from your half. Except for sex. Fuck more often, experiment in bed and add variety. Good sex saved many relationships that were already on the brink of collapse.
The French writer Frederic Beigbeder wrote excellently about love and the work on it: “For three years that love lives that did not storm the peaks, did not visit the bottom, but fell from the sky ready-made. Love lives long only if each of the lovers knows its value."