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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
Very often people all their lives run after an unattainable goal, work all the time, never rest and rarely see their loved ones. They hope to achieve their dreams, become rich, achieve success, and bask in luxury. But what if you find out right now that you will never be rich and successful? What will you do and what will you do? Does a person need to come to terms with fate and what to do?
"However, it is evident that it was written in his own family …" M. Yu. Lermontov.
Fate is a set of events that will affect a person and his future life. Fate, fate, fate, fate, higher power - these are the words that we call the predetermination of circumstances and events. Someone believes in it, and someone stubbornly denies it. All this is laid down from childhood, when we begin to dream and fantasize about the future.
As a child, the future seemed like something magical, unusual and wonderful, until we faced it face to face. The real everyday life turned out to be not so festive and bright, which caused insulting annoyance and even greatly disappointed.
In adulthood, dreams have proven elusive or even impossible. As a result, we work hard all our lives for days that we don't even see white light. We are chasing money, wealth, fame, fame and success. But we spend so much time and effort on this that some questions of expediency arise. But what if your destiny is not destined to achieve some desired goal or dream?
What happens if I tell you that you will never be rich and successful?
Most likely you will never be wealthy and successful, no matter how hard you try and try. Much of your efforts can be wasted and pointless. You can spend your whole life at work, killing yourself on goals or doing things, but you never get the dream in the end. It will be very disappointing. Does a person need to come to terms with fate or still continue to fight?
Try to accept this fact that you will never have a yacht, a villa, a limousine and a lot of money. That you will not be famous, successful, popular and famous. All dreams are unreal and will only remain dreams. What will you feel?
On the one hand, you will feel tremendous disappointment, sadness, longing and depression. All your castles in the air are destroyed.
But, on the other hand, you will feel tremendous relief, as if a stone had fallen from your soul. You don't need to tear your strength and soul to try to get the unattainable. You do not need to kill yourself at work and work hard for days. You do not need to shrink, allocate time and waste your resources. You are free. You seem to have already lost, which means you can just enjoy the game.
It's even hard to say what will be best for you. If you’re never going to be rich and successful, then why hustle and live in eternal stress? Why go out of your way when you don't get the dough or the fame? Enjoy your life.
Does a person need to come to terms with fate?
Nobody knows how life will end and what will happen next. Do I need to come to terms with fate and fight for dreams when they are almost unrealistic? Maybe it's easier to let go and score? But will this be a surrender of positions and a betrayal of oneself? Maybe it's cowardice and weakness?
Is it wiser to be a fatalist who believes in fate and its signs? Maybe there is a predetermination of everything that happens, but is it easier and more correct to submit to fate? Just go with the flow and hope for the best?
Everyone decides for himself how and then pays for it. Does a person need to come to terms with fate? No one knows, except fate, how to act more correctly. But if you need some kind of strategy or action plan, then here it is. There are two options in total.
1. Accept fate
Take a close look at all your dreams and goals. In 99% percent of cases, they will be unrealistic and unattainable. You will never get it, and your sand castles should be destroyed. Live as if you will never be rich and successful.
When you stop chasing unrealistic goals, you begin to feel completely free. You do not do what you need to do, but what you want. You devote time to hobbies, hobbies, desires, passions. You do your favorite things, spend time with loved ones, relax in peace, walk with friends, travel and enjoy life.
When you give up an unattainable goal, then life becomes more enjoyable and fulfilling. You can set some more realistic and mundane goals, which will have a good effect on their effectiveness. You will be able to conquer attainable peaks and enjoy the fruits of victory.
Do I need to come to terms with an unhappy fate? Absolutely not. An unhappy situation with unrealistic requests should be distinguished. If you are not satisfied with your job, relationships, place of residence and lifestyle, then change them. You are not a tree, which means you can move towards a better life. Resign yourself to fate, but disagree with an unhappy life.
2. Do not accept fate
Sometimes dreams are really unattainable and extremely difficult. Many people want to become a popular blogger, businessman or star, but how realistic is it? But if you like being a blogger and making videos? If you like your business, which you do not only for money?
If your pursuits make you happy, then you should do it, even this will not bring money and fame. Do what the soul lies to and the heart burns.
You may never be rich and successful, but what the hell is not kidding? Even yesterday's loser today becomes successful, famous and rich. The main argument for persisting in a dream is that luck is unpredictable. Fortune can be on your side any time you least expect it. And there all dreams will come true. Do not resign yourself to fate, but chase dreams and goals. You will succeed.
Accept fate or fight? I think that it is not the goal and the dream itself that is important, but the very road to it. Will you get to her? Nobody knows. Even fate.