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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
You've always liked self-confident people, but aren't you? How often did you freeze a step away from an act, but did not commit it? The main enemy of success is human indecision.
Fear does not allow taking advantage of the chance, and the given opportunity is not realized. We do not go to the girl we like for fear of rejection. We do not change our place of work, in fear of changing something. We do not travel fully, replacing it with proven types of recreation. We do not turn into an unfamiliar alley in search of new experiences. We are not looking for new friends and experiences. We do not follow the call of the heart and do not give in to the impulse. Someone will say that this is pragmatism, prudence and caution of an adult. But this is not the case. This is called indecision. Fear fetters a person's potential and does not allow him to live fully.
Do you know people who seem to radiate confidence? They are inimitable and admirable. They are confident in themselves and their strengths. How do they do it? Is it congenital? No! Confidence is an acquired skill.
How to deal with indecision and be confident?
Take action
Hesitation increases fear. You don't take a step right away, and doubts begin. Confusion erodes confidence. But at this moment you need to act! Analyze your fear. Understand, finally, what you specifically fear. Now take action!
How to become confident? Not sure about your appearance? Visit the store and update your wardrobe. Not sure about physical beauty? Start going to a gym or fitness club. Not sure about your professionalism at work? This is a reason to start working harder. Afraid of failing an exam or test? You better get ready. Afraid of being judged by others? Be better and accept the inevitable criticism. Do you consider yourself more stupid than others? Read more and gnaw on the granite of science. Afraid to communicate with other people? Expand your social circle.
Thoughts positive
Each situation can be viewed from different angles. Optimism is the confident person's best weapon. Someone sees in every difficulty an obstacle, others see it as an opportunity. Losers dwell on their own failures and disappointments. They repeat their failure 1,000 times in their heads. But is it worth dwelling on mistakes? Imagine yourself as the engine of a car. If you throw dirt inside him every day, how will he work? The engine will soon stop running and the car will stall on the side of the road. And confident people will go further. They do not have the habit of ruining themselves. Think more about the good and the positive in your life.
Connect with people
We are all somewhat similar to each other. Show attention and respect to each person. But demand the same from them. Try to align the relationship with equal importance. Sometimes some people will attack you in an attempt to harm you. Confident people know how to deal with this. You can ignore their words or strike back.
Be sure
If you are confident in yourself, then behave accordingly. Behave like western movie heroes. They are confident, brave and proud. Smile broadly! There is so much unrealized courage and challenge in a smile. Don't slouch and straighten your shoulders. Move vigorously, not like a sleepy somnambulist. Feel free to express your opinion in front of others and trust your decisions. Look into the eyes of the interlocutor and do not hide your gaze. Be confident in yourself and your strengths.
How to become confident? It is enough to decide once that you deserve more than you have now. Don't let indecision stand in front of you and success. Send your shyness to the knockout.