2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
Walk while you're young? Even in a hefty city during the day with fire, you cannot find those who want to have an easy affair with a pretty girl - give everyone long-term prospects. Neither boys nor girls want an open relationship.
The opinion of a girl from the capital about free love and relationships.
I am a girl from 12 million Moscow, and I am unrealistically sick of looking for a guy for an open relationship!
Everything is very simple: I'm 23, I have everything in order with housing and work, in the opinion of others, a good figure and pumped up communication skills, and also, surprisingly, I like my life, and I do not want to part with it. Yes, I didn’t give up the responsibility associated with building relationships, I don’t want to delve into this jungle, “work on myself”, build something there and waste time on clarifying stupid problems. I am not at all interested in everyday life and the idea of home comfort is not close to me, and I stubbornly do not understand what is good in loading my partner with my stories about the past day and listening to the same boring stories in response, calling it support. I am always ready to help and know how to accept help, but I don’t need meetings, I don’t want to plan my life with an eye on someone and generally get carried away with plans, but I will gladly offer everything that is available today.
I will support the idea of taking a weekend break anywhere in the world or, on the contrary, locking myself in a room at the nearest recreation center. I will gladly go around all the museums with you, go to any concert, meet friends, fly on a paraglider, try Madagascar beetles and generally agree to at least conduct journalistic investigations, at least play paintball in the night forest. I do not mind sitting on the balcony under the stars, discussing with you literature, structuralist theories or the new law of the State Duma, drinking wine and speculating about abstract concepts. And finally, I fully approve of the idea of visiting an intimate goods store, inviting more people to our company, going to a sex party, changing partners or spending an evening on the side.
Probably, against the background of general seriousness, this is not a very popular position, but I love entertainment and do not understand what pushes people of my generation to search for a mate. Yes, I am not able to figure out why create additional inconveniences for myself, set limits and introduce the concept of some kind of cheating, why should I worry that my boyfriend is having a good time, and why should I limit myself to only him. I don’t want boring stability, I don’t want to spoil the wonderful moments of life, trying to stretch them out forever, there is nothing worse than knowing that tomorrow will be like the previous one. I am 23 years old, and I do not understand how it is possible at this age to dream of a family and TV shows under a blanket, and if someone says that it will be too late, it would be better late than I drive myself into such Kabbalah.
Zadolbalo that everyone needs a serious relationship. Even guys who say that they are in free float begin to complain and freak out about lack of trust after two weeks, although they were well aware of my position, but either did not pay the slightest attention to it, or considered it a joke. As for the gay girls with whom I tried to get acquainted, I have never come across anyone who wants to start communication without a specific goal. It seems incredible, but in a hefty city where there are people, it seems, with any worldview, in the daytime with fire you will not find those who want to have an easy affair with a pretty girl - give everyone long-term prospects.
Here it is customary to answer, so answer, students and young professionals from the middle class: what prevents you from looking for temporary options, why do you strive to quickly hang yourself with a bunch of obligations, why can't you just allow yourself to have fun at least until you are thirty? It feels like I exist in the world of spherical retirees, it seems that stability in relationships is now starting to look for a class that way from the eighth, at least when I was in the eighth, people were already striving for formality with might and main. I got sick of this disgustingly boring alignment in romance, in which it is impossible to find either lightness or inspiration.