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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
Our life is most like a puzzle that we constantly collect. We have lost the box from the puzzle, and therefore we do not know what should happen in the end. We confidently collect the puzzle on a whim, hoping for a better picture, but we don't know what. How to put together your puzzle of life in order to take everything from it and be happy?
What is the sense of life? Nobody knows this, and everyone has his own. Our life is most like a puzzle, when there is no box, and we act almost at random. We are hastily assembling the picture, but we do not know what should be the result.
We collect something of our own to make a beautiful and happy life, but puzzles are sorely lacking. We work hard until we find that the resulting picture does not suit us at all. We destroy the drawing and start over. How many times have you started your life from scratch? Many times, but every time you don't get something worthy and really worthwhile? So many.
We have no experience in jigsaw puzzle, and therefore we are guided by the advice of other people. This will not help us much, but it will give someone to whom we can shove the responsibility for an unsuccessful life. We can blame our parents, friends, or a soul mate for a poor life. But who is to blame for the fact that you did not compose your own puzzle of life?
Other people you interact with also collect their puzzle and their picture. Your significant other may look like a dream, but strive for something completely different. In a relationship, you will each collect your own picture, destroy each other's puzzles and interfere. Each person sees the life of his dreams in his own way, but rarely when goals and life plans coincide. Do you feel the danger to your fragile puzzle?
In relationships, it often happens that you make up different pictures, which leads to insoluble contradictions in the next couple of years. We spend a year, two, five, or ten years on relationships, but we find an absolute incompatibility. At this moment, it is difficult to admit to yourself that you spent so much time on a person with whom you have different life paths.
Often we part with someone, and the resulting void is filled with another puzzle, which also does not fit. But we don't care, because we can't see the void in the center of our puzzle.
We stuff the wrong person into our puzzle and then we are surprised. Why is there the wrong piece of the puzzle in the center of your puzzle? But we see this later, when the feeling of falling in love subsides.
According to statistics, about 60% of marriages end in divorce, and 90% of all relationships under 30 end in nothing. Quite an unpleasant statistic to approach this lightly. Falling in love with a pretty girl is easy, but the chances of your puzzle pieces matching up are minimal.
What is the chance of meeting the right girl at school, university, or close to home? Minimum. But we continue to believe that the love of our life just happened to be nearby. What a coincidence! Judging by the statistics, you have not yet found your love, even if you have a soul mate. Take a close look at your other half. You will see that the drawings of your puzzles do not match at all. But both of you are afraid to admit to yourself that you were wrong in choosing each other.
Most likely you have not yet found the love of your dreams, no matter how you deceive yourself. Think about it.
The center of the puzzle of your life
The most interesting thing about the puzzle is that we fill its center in different ways. We always place the most important things for us in the center. But if you put your soul mate there, but after a couple of years you will find that it was a mistake. We often change our soul mate in our life, which each time leads to the destruction of the entire puzzle pattern. It is more correct to stir the relationship not in the center of the puzzle, but somewhere on the edge and on the side. As a result, the breakdown of the relationship will not lead to the destruction of the whole puzzle of life. It will not throw you into despair.
Pay attention to the fact that when you are lonely, you are quite happy? This is healthy selfishness, which is the right strategy. Occupy the center with something you love that interests you the most. The center of the puzzle should be your dreams, goals, desires, fantasies, plans and interests.
Being alone is not bad, but time to take care of yourself and your dreams. Relationships will then appear, but somewhere to the side of the center of the puzzle. Be a little selfish, chase your dreams and complete the puzzle. The picture of the puzzle of life that you collect depends only on you.
Make sure that you like the puzzle drawing. Build your life puzzle after puzzle, enjoying the process, not rushing and fussing. Take a closer look around when completing the puzzle. You will find people who fit perfectly into your drawing and representation of life. Here you go along the way with them. Put together a jigsaw puzzle, it's more fun and easier when working on dreams as a team.
But most importantly, remember that you can always start over your puzzle while still in this world. It's just that you will have a little less time to complete the puzzle, but you will already have valuable experience, which was so lacking at the start of life.
How do you know that you have completed your puzzle of life correctly? You are happy here and now.