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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
What to do in life when nothing works out and everything goes badly? How to overcome difficult times and improve your life? Why is everything bad and who is to blame?
Everyone around is doing well, except you. People get married, buy cars, move into new apartments, are happy in relationships, achieve goals, travel a lot and do whatever they want. But not you. Everything is different with you. Everything is bad with you and it is getting worse and trashy. Why does life get worse, and also get away from it?
We often feel bad when things don't go as planned. As a result, it seems that life has failed, unlike others. You are a loser and there are no prospects in life. But it’s not like that. This is not the point at all.
The reasons for the deterioration of life
Our life consists of many different clusters or puzzles. This is work, personal life, car, apartment, things, hobbies, desires, goals, dreams. We have to put together a complete picture, otherwise we will not be happy. If we are missing one piece or several, then we feel unhappy. Problems in our personal life or at work can make us depressed.
Soberly assess what you want or what you don’t have. Often we are wasted over a trifle when the problem is far-fetched. You don't have a cool car, but how much do you need it? Maybe a cheaper analog isn't so bad? Do you want to date Miss World, who has the perfect appearance and character? But how perfect are you? Do you want to have a cool job and do nothing? It doesn't work that way. Everything has to be paid for with time and effort.
The absence of several clusters or puzzles is the cause of our longing, but sometimes our life gradually collapses. Instead of getting better, things start to get worse and worse. Personal problems, workers, household. When whole groups of clusters fall out of the folded picture, we begin to worry and panic.
You had a relationship, but you broke up. You had a job, but you got fired. You had plans, but they collapsed. There can be many defeats. The result is a sense of disaster and despair. Life seems to get worse and worse. We have difficulties that did not exist before. The end of the world has come, which we do not control. Life collapsed, crushing our desires with fragments.
Why is life getting worse and what to do?
Why does everything in life get worse? You don’t do what can improve it, or you’re doing the wrong thing. You lost your grip and relaxed ahead of time. As a result, the picture of your world is destroyed when the number of clusters of happiness becomes less, and there are more holes and shortcomings.
Stop, take it easy and stop the fall
The most important thing is not to cheat yourself in vain. You are in an unpleasant position that does not suit you. You are not at all where you want to be. But this is not a reason to go into depression, or to think that life is over. Let off some steam and slow down. Stop. You are doing something wrong or you are not doing anything at all.
Your life plan, or lack of it, is not working properly. If you fall into a hole, then the first thing is to stop digging.
Consider the situation in which you find yourself
What happened or didn't happen? What is the reason for your bad mood? What is the problem or problems? Divide all your grief into clusters and think it over separately. Why are you in this situation and how can you fix it? Why do you feel like life is getting worse? Where did you miss and what did you miscalculate? Scrupulously and soberly assess the situation in which he found himself.
Come up with a plan that works
Nothing in life can be achieved without a worthwhile plan. You will go with the flow, or chaotically rush from side to side. All this will not help to resolve the situation. It's time to use your brains and use their full potential. The plan can cover career, personal life, health, or whatever. Make a plan for every part of your life to keep things going.
1. What goals need to be set and what benchmarks to look at?
2. Where do you need to move in order to refract the course of events by a positive vector?
3. How to achieve what you want in a week, month or year?
4. What exactly can help you in this situation?
5. What needs to be done in a completely different way, for positive changes?
6. What do you need to work on every day, devoting your time and energy?
7. What knowledge or experience do you lack?
8. Where to move on a global scale?
9. Are your priorities right?
10. Who or what is stopping you, making your dreams unfulfilled?
11. What plan should work for sure and how realistic is it?
12. Do you avoid problems or do you solve them?
13. Who can help or give advice?
14. What should be learned or what experience should be gained?
15. How to start changing the situation today?
Come up with a plan that works. Then you can say that you are working to improve your situation. You yourself create the desired puzzle or cluster. You solve your problems that arose earlier.
Why is life getting worse? You are relaxed or you are not doing what is required. You can sit down for a glass, get depressed, or feel sorry for yourself. And you can analyze the situation, and then proceed to rectify it.
Why is life not perfect? She will not be like that, but she can be made quite prosperous and happy. You do not need much for happiness, but for that little you should make some effort. And how much time and effort are you willing to pay for your happiness? For 5 kopecks, for good luck or for free, you cannot slip into a happy life.