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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
How often do we say to ourselves: "I want to try, but I'm afraid." As a result, you do not approach the girl you like with whom you could be lucky. You are afraid to experience a new job, a new place of residence and a new hobby. If you never use the chance and good opportunities that fate offers, then what can you count on in life? You're old enough to start trying, not being afraid all the time.
Everything always starts and goes from childhood. Where did this fear of trying something come from? Maybe from the tower of the pool, from where you were always afraid to jump? Maybe with a bully who was afraid to fight back? Maybe with a beautiful girl whom he was afraid to approach? Maybe from a university that was afraid to choose so as not to upset the parents? Maybe from work or hobby that you wanted to try, but feared?
Now it's hard to say where you originally got this fear of trying. Maybe you once tried to do something, but nothing worked out for you? Perhaps you once fell off a bike or fence when you decided to try something? You once suffered the first defeat, and after that you stopped trying.
You could be completely different
Who are you now? How are you? Think about how your life would develop if in childhood you jumped off the tower of the pool, gave a bully in the nose, approached a beautiful girl, received another specialty, or did something in your own way? It could have been different. You would be at a different point where you could be 100 times happier.
Your whole problem lies in the fact that you never try much or never. You are not using the wonderful chance that fate gives. What is the secret of millionaires, stars, playboys and other successful people in their field? It lies in the fact that they are not afraid to try over and over again until they win.
Don't be afraid to do, be afraid not to try!
One famous playboy who did not have good looks and money was asked about his secret of seduction. Guess what he was in? Playboy said that every girl was asked to go on a date. As a result, he had a dizzying success with the fair sex, had many mistresses and married a wealthy beauty. He used every chance, and did not miss it, like you. Try, and do not be afraid to approach the girl you like.
Kiss bassist Gene Simmons, who also had a dizzying success with women, acted in a similar manner. Rocker claimed that in his life, he dragged more than 5 thousand women into his bed. What's the secret? One day he told it.
“Do you want sex with all the beauties in the world? Roll up to everyone. But without familiarity - you should not approach her with a glass of vodka and, drunkenly staggering, slap her ass. Act like this: you approach, indicate your intentions and see if there is a response signal. Women are like traffic lights, let the green light go on somewhere.”Gene Simmons
In business, career, work and even science, it is the attempts that are important, and not the fear of failure. Theoretical physicist Albert Einstein argued that only those who try can achieve even the impossible. But if you don't, but what can you count on?
How to use the chance?
You just have to grab the chance with your hands and teeth. The real losers are not the ones who fail after defeat after defeat. Losers are people so afraid of losing that they never even dare to try. Losers never grab a chance, even if it knocks on their doors. They lock themselves in the apartment and crawl under the bed, under which it is "safe". But what if they walked out on the doorstep?
I want to try, but I'm afraid. How often do you talk and think about that? Every time you do this, you miss the opportunity to change everything. Do you think fate will often give you chances? Over time, she will get bored. Over the years, you have fewer and fewer opportunities.
How can everything be changed for the better? Don't be afraid to make a mistake, but be afraid not to try. Grab all good odds with both hands. A beautiful girl walking down the street? Take her out on a date. She may refuse, but at least you tried. But some gorgeous girls will give you a chance and turn the traffic light green, embracing you and more.
Grab onto new courses where you can get a different specialty. Get knowledge, go to seminars, post a resume, drive to interviews. All this is a great chance to get what you want the most. Such an active position will allow you to fully self-actualize in life.
Create opportunities yourself
Try it, don't be afraid. Take every great chance. But what if the chances are not presented, as if you are not worthy of them? Create opportunities yourself to have a chance. Shake fate yourself to take it by force.
When chances are rare, you need to bring more activity into your life. Go to new places to meet new people. Install dating apps. Get an education, read books, complete courses, send out resumes, apply for vacancies and look for other opportunities.
Take an active life position! And this is not all that you do, or rather not do.
Sometimes we miss chances because we live the wrong way of life. Gene Simmons, about whom they wrote above, said: "How many times have you missed a great opportunity just because you got drunk on firewood?" How many times have you missed an opportunity because you were sitting at home, drinking or being lazy? 10500 thousand times.
Give up the preconceived notion that you have no future, prospects and chances at all. Get away from thinking patterns and look at the world from a point of possibility. Wipe your eyes, because there are many probabilities in the world that can become your reality. Even the most incredible dream. Show curiosity, curiosity, which were still in childhood. There is a lot of interesting, pleasant, good, wonderful and cool things that you have not tried yet.
The world is open, and there are many chances and opportunities in it. Is there something interesting and desirable in it that you can and want to try, but listen? Stop forbidding yourself and become free. Don't be afraid to make a mistake, but be afraid not to try.