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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
The question of how to make a person miss you often arises among lovers of the candy-bouquet period at the very beginning of a relationship. Even then, partners who have become emotionally attached to each other expect that the other half, greatly bored, will forgive the guilty person for all sins and offenses, or she herself will ask for forgiveness for their mistakes.
While the girls, tormented by doubts, burst into tears in the company of their friends, endlessly asking the same question - "he doesn't love me, he doesn't even bored, how can I make him bored so that he crawls on his knees?" trying to suppress the mental pain with a glass of alcohol in the company of friends, or by pulling glands in the gym. Both you and her are interested in the question, how to make the other half bored so much that it was impossible to control yourself?
Making another person miss you is not difficult, there are several ways, let's look at them in order.
How to make a person bored
To do this, we will consider two essential principles of love.
1. Create an artificial love deficit
One of the main principles of love sounds like this - "we love in people the way they love us."
To understand what exactly will make the other person miss you madly, you do not have to be well versed in the intricacies of the human soul. Switch your attention to yourself, and remember exactly what you yourself feel and what do you remember when you miss your loved one?
That's right, you remember the brightest, tender and soulful moments when you were together. You remember her laugh, sparkling eyes and tender kisses. You remember your own feelings that she gave you with her presence. She complimented you, looked at you adoringly. Your self-esteem skyrocketed and you felt super macho …
You love in her HOW she loves you. This is one of the most important principles of love! Remember it forever!
By the way, she, shaking now in sobs, and pouring out waterfalls of tears, tells her friends how she loves you, mentioning how you loved her. And all just because we all love in people the way they love us.
Hence the simple conclusion - to make a person bored, it is enough to give him your endless love, and then temporarily deprive him of this. He will miss these moments madly. This is something akin to drug withdrawal, and a person is sometimes willing to do a lot to get the coveted dose of the former adoration. Everything is used - and the forgiveness of something that cannot be forgiven, and humiliation, and tears and humility … And all in order to return everything to normal.
2. Demonstration of "detachment"
The second no less important principle of love is “detachment”. Remember, nothing binds like detachment.
I think the idea is clear here without comment. This principle is very closely related to the first principle of love. They could even be considered together, in a single bundle.
When the other half seriously realizes that a loving person is indifferent to their quarrel or disagreement, she begins to go crazy.
Realizing that they are not attached to you, you begin to come up with different methods and ways to bind a loved one to yourself - with anything, just to bind in order to calm your brain and live without tormenting expectations and doubts.
Hence the conclusion - show her your detachment, and you will hurt her very much. Perhaps she will step on her pride, and humiliatingly approach you first to make peace. You are not interested in the fact that she now hates herself for her weakness, feels humiliation and is destroyed as a person, because it is more important for you to win and make her miss you!
3. Accumulation of shared memories
What do you think a girl should miss? And how do people get bored in general? What do they miss?
That's right, people miss the past. In the past, in which they felt good, in which they were happy. Accordingly, in order for her to miss something, she needs to accumulate happy memories and bright moments.
Man is an amazing creature who, as a rule, never lives in the present moment, in the Now moment.
A person lives either in the past, mourning the memories that are dear to his heart, or - the future, which he either madly awaits, or is afraid of panic (depending on what he thought of for himself there). For some reason, everyone is in a hurry to the Present moment, and they begin to appreciate it only when it turns into memories.
Therefore, if you want to make a girl miss you, you just need to accumulate happy memories, which she will then cling to, like a saving straw, trying to do everything to make these memories repeat in the future, because she felt so good and comfortable when you was near. From this, she will gradually collapse from the inside, a feeling of endless regret and memory that corrodes the soul, slowly but surely will shake the already unstable psyche, and she will miss more and more.
Think, why do you need such a girl - with an unhealthy psyche and a shattered nervous system? Why do you want to make her miss you at all?
If everything is in order with your own self-esteem, then you will not want to suppress your beloved woman, driving her into the framework of addiction. After all, a loved one is valued and respected, and not trying to subjugate and enslave.
Why do you need all this
Let's abstract for a while, digress and look at all this from the other side. Think, why do you need the other person to miss you? How will you feel if you are sure that the girl misses you? You will feel peace and safety. Nothing will bother you anymore if you know that she misses and loves you. How she feels at the same time, you, apparently, are of little interest.
The desire to enslave another person, to bind to oneself, to make one dependent comes from one's own complexes, fears and insecurities.
If you do not trust your other half, or are afraid of losing her for one reason or another, then making her miss you madly is not the best way to build healthy, full-fledged relationships.
First of all, evaluate yourself as a person, your resources, capabilities, and, of course, self-esteem.
Remember that a man with normal self-esteem and not having the baggage of children's complexes will choose other methods of winning a lady's heart, rather than make her miss himself. It is rather a female method of fighting for male love.
In addition, the above methods in their essence and method of influence are equally applicable to both men and women, because we are all living people who love and experience the whole range of various emotions.
You can one day use the proposed methods of “how to make you miss you” as a test for your other half, and not as a way of suppressing and subordinating another person to yourself.
Try to create a full-fledged partnership, built on love, mutual respect and understanding, in such a way that you would like to ask the question - "how can you make sure that your loved one does not feel mental discomfort and does not miss you madly in moments of forced separation?" look for ways to inflict additional mental anguish on a loved one.
After all, true love is a strong, powerful and truly great feeling that unites kindred souls and lonely hearts …