Confidence rules

Lack of self-confidence. What to do? We all grew up on cartoons about fairy-tale characters, films about supermen and tough guys. They are able to cope with a variety of problems including monsters, alien invaders and terrorists. The heroes, saving the planet, always look so confident that they want to borrow a drop of their brutal equanimity. Does everything look a little different in life than in the movies? But you, too, are unlikely to have to repel an alien invasion today or fight villains in a knife fight. How to look confident every day, every hour, every moment in your daily life?

Hero Confidence Rules

Confidence Rule # 1. Put on your "bulletproof vest"

Your Hero: Remember Jason Statham In movie. He always has a flawless appearance. In real life, Jason Statham is a little different from the movies. In life, he looks even more flawless.

very cool. During childbirth, the obstetrician damaged Sylvester Stallone's facial nerve. This did not prevent him from becoming the idol of millions. And Stallone's crooked smile is his calling card.

Life brings various surprises and often they are not very pleasant. Physical or mental deficiencies should not make you an outcast or a failure. Work on yourself and be sure that any drawback can be covered with advantages.

Sylvester Stallone in the movie The Expendables

Confidence Rule # 3. Exercise

Your Hero: Wushu Master Jet Li able to pull any opponent you know what, you know where and not only in the movies.

Regular morning exercises will give you elementary self-confidence. If you do martial arts, go to the gym or go in for swimming, then you understand that you are at least stronger than half of the men around you. Sport will give confidence and a sense of physical superiority over a potential adversary. Sport will give you the love of women.

always spit on those who do not like it and was right about it.

The reasons for shyness lie in the fact that a person thinks that he is worse than others. Stop thinking about your shortcomings and even more so to look for them. You are not worse, but better than others. And who to be ashamed of that? You will always be criticized, especially if you are better than those around you. The more success, the more criticism from losers or envious people.

Bruce Willis in Die Hard 5: A Good Day to Die

Confidence Rule # 5. Improve and Move Forward

Your hero: Arnold Schwarzenegger more than an idol of athletes and film lovers. He is used to not stopping and achieving success in any field.

Learning a foreign language, dancing, swimming, martial arts puts you up a notch. The more you can, the more confident in your future you become. Take aim at the unattainable and you will get the most out of life.

Arnold Schwarzenegger in the movie Return of the Hero

Confidence Rule # 6. Don't Be Afraid to Make Mistakes

Your hero: Mickey Rourke had a long and difficult life: spinning in the underworld, dealing in drugs, drinking and ruining his acting career. Mickey wasn't perfect, but he was real and he wasn't afraid to make mistakes.

if it retreats, then only to take a running start. Jackie Chan repeatedly put his life in danger for another trick, but he knew when to stop.

A person is not able to be always physically or mentally prepared. Recognize your right to get away from conflict or difficult situations. This will give you confidence in your abilities. Then you can return to the conflict again, but with renewed vigor.

Jackie Chan in the movie "Armor of God 3. Mission Zodiac"

Confidence Rule # 8. Be Cool

Your Hero: Martial Arts Master and Actor Chuck Norris cool beyond movies and the internet. The eighth dan out of 9 is in taekwondo, the tenth dan is in tansudo. Chuck Norris was a seven-time world karate champion.

Everyone sets their own price. They communicate with you the way you allow it. Be who you want to be.