2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
Some actions lead you by leaps and bounds to failure and defeat. But if you get rid of them, they become steps towards happiness, love and good luck.
Some small decisions will allow you to take a broader view of life and enjoy it, become more purposeful, determined, happy, and find love.
1. Running from problems
If you avoid difficulties and problems, then they will return to you, but in the form of a growing snowball. Learn to overcome difficulties and work on them, because hiding your head in the sand is far from the best way out. By solving problems, you remove barriers to a better life and learn to be stronger.
2. Communication with negative characters in your life
Break all contacts with those friends, acquaintances or girlfriends who once truly betrayed you. Yes, sometimes people should be given a second chance, but never a third, it's a waste of time. People who are dear to you will always find a reason to be with you, and do not remember you at a convenient occasion. People who pull you to the bottom, pushing you to be worse than you are, should also be excluded from the social circle.
3. Search for a nonexistent ideal
Models, actresses and other seductive girls look at you from the covers of men's magazines. Beauty is not a template that includes model 90-60-90, a narrow waist, legs from the ears and a fifth breast size. Blonde, brunette, brown-haired or redhead, why dwell on hair color, figure, eye color, height. Each person is unique and it is worth taking a broader approach to this, and not driving the ideals imposed by someone under your own. Open your eyes and you will see that there are many wonderful and even wonderful people around you, who have everything in order with their appearance and character.
4. Looping over defeat
After parting with the love of your whole life, failures at work, betrayal of friends, illness and other troubles, you begin to walk in circles. New defeats and troubles result from only one mistake and you blame everything on it. If the past could be changed, you think everything would be different for you. But do not deceive yourself, everything could be different if you stopped feeling sorry for yourself and hiding from new troubles. Abstraction from one single defeat and you will again gain new victories and success with happiness will be on your side.
5. Inability to wait
A lot of businessmen, and ordinary people, abandoned their way halfway, they fizzled out, stopped believing in themselves, their strengths and ideas. Good things only happen to those who believe in themselves, are willing to wait, and strive for their dreams. A strong person is not someone who does not fall, but someone who finds the strength to rise and move on.
6. Trying to control everything
Not everything can be controlled or corrected, just live on, do not guess and do not rack your brains with useless speculations. Do everything to improve your life and believe in your happy future. Good luck comes to positive people, it will definitely happen when you least expect it.
7. Never take risks
The one who does nothing is not mistaken. By trying to be perfect and avoid any risks, you will turn your life into a routine. People who achieve incredible success have always risked their peace of mind, position, money, health and even life. Think of British tycoon Richard Branson, owner of the 400-company Virgin Group. Engaging in seemingly insane business projects and ventures, making several successful attempts to break world records in a hot air balloon, boat, he reached the position of being the 4th richest person in the United Kingdom, according to Forbes 2011.
8. Be ungrateful
Ingratitude is one of the negative qualities of a person, eating away at him from the inside. Even in difficult times, learn to be grateful for your family, work, position, friends and life that you have. Remembering that you have good, you will understand that life is not so bad.
9. Unpreparedness for change
A person changes daily, every act and situation affects him. Do not become ossified, but be ready for your changes and the changes of those around you. Do not drag people into the past, but move with them into the future. Make friends with old but changed friends, love your girlfriend, and now your wife. Time is running out, get used to it.
10. Haste to fall in love
It is not difficult to find someone who confesses his love to you, but it is much more difficult to find someone who really feels it. Many men and women confess their love and meet with you only to achieve some specific goals: the desire to seduce you, take advantage of your position and connections, marry or get married out of selfish motives, boredom, the desire to forget past love, just unwind, thoughts, that you are a good "fallback" or "temporary" option. Do not rush to fall in love with a person who can alienate your true love from you, replacing it with "fast food". Find someone who will not only talk about love, but also show it every day, who is ready to give you his soul if you ask. Do not be tempted by a tit in your hands when your pie is in the sky, do not compromise with you.