2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
Do you want to feel truly alive, special and happy? Be different from others, find your individuality and independence!
We always tell ourselves about the need to decide on desires, dreams, plans. Choose your own path. Let it be unusual, strange, incomprehensible to others. But he will be yours! And then we get scared again. We all want to be different from everyone else, but we behave like everyone else.
“We are afraid to seem like upstarts. All due to the fact that in childhood we were given the wrong attitudes: "do not get out of the crowd", "be like everyone else", "do not stick out your nose", and we gradually lost our individuality, merging with the crowd or, on the contrary, yearned to gain independence and thus they went to the other extreme - they turned into robots without feelings and emotions … "Oleg Roy
An unhappy, alike majority
Most people in the world are unhappy. Billions of people spend their lives not on what is interesting, but on what they should be doing. About 70% of everyday life is spent on unloved and unpleasant activities. The remaining 30% of the time we spend on ourselves. What we like and enjoy. But these pitiful crumbs are not able to compensate for a fulfilling life. Books, meditations, lectures, self-improvement will not help us.
We spend a lot of time mining resources, but as income grows, costs increase. We spend more and more on entertainment, material goods and other needs of the consumer lifestyle. So we get into a vicious circle in which we run faster and faster.
Dare to be different
The dissatisfaction of others is not a reason to deprive yourself of the opportunity and chances to change a lot in life. There is no point in trying to change the world when you have to start with yourself. Change yourself. Will there be a misunderstanding of others? Let be!
Follow your dream. Many people will think that you are out of touch with reality, wandering in the clouds, making mistakes and forgetting about responsibilities. But why should you care so much about the opinion of the unhappy majority to give up your dream?
Find your dissimilarity
Be different from others! Make your life richer, more fulfilling, bright! Do you know how?
Ask yourself what brings you the most joy! What do you like to do in your free time? What gives you the most pleasure? What do you admire? What do you like to discuss with your friends? What would you change in the world? What do you like to read and watch? What do you dream of leaving behind? What's the best thing? What kind of people do you like? Who do you want to be like? What are you dreaming about?
When you analyze your answers, you will understand something about yourself. What do you lack for happiness.
Be different from others
Painter Salvador Dali, physicist Nikola Tesla, inventor Henry Ford, artist Marc Chagall, writer Gabriel Marquez, entrepreneur Steve Jobs were all misunderstood by those around them. But they found the strength to reveal their abilities. They went forward, not paying attention to their dissimilarity, and achieved success.
You don't have to do one decisive thing. Change your life step by step. But don't run away from reality with some activity. Gradually find opportunities to do what you love more and more. Financial difficulties? And who said that you will be very simple? Ultimately, the financial component will work out well. When you listen to your heart, everything gradually forms and develops in the right way.
Do you want to feel truly alive, special and happy? Be different from others, find your individuality and independence! We cannot rid you of fears, doubts, indecision. Believe in yourself. Be different from others. Nobody can do something in the same way that you can do it. Don't listen to the unhappy majority. You are unique in what you do with love and pleasure. Unique and unlike billions of others. And don't listen to anyone!
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