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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
Inside each of us there are two people who argue with each other. One of them is white and fluffy, and the second is evil and with devil's horns. But it is the dark side that helps us protect ourselves and achieve our goals. How should you take revenge on bad people and those who offended you? The dark side of personality is often not recognized, but everyone has it. Sometimes it is she who gives us strange advice that is full of aggressiveness, selfishness and anger. The Austrian psychologist, psychiatrist and neurologist Sigmund Freud called the dark side "it". This is an unconscious part of the psyche, instincts and desires.
Sometimes we think in a slightly weird and vicious way. Thoughts are unacceptable, negative and immoral. But is it really that bad? We want to take revenge on the offender, achieve justice, defend our rights or do what we really want. This is normal and correct.
The great circus performer, film actor, TV presenter Yuri Nikulin said: “Never take revenge on vile people. Just be happy and they won't survive it. " With all my love for Yuri Nikulin, I do not always agree with this phrase. Sometimes you can score, but sometimes it is simply impossible to forgive or yield to vile people. There are times in life when you need to show your teeth to assholes and scoundrels.
Do I need to take revenge on a person for the wrongs inflicted? Necessary
A person grows and develops when there is a conflict.
In his youth, one guy rolled up to my girlfriend, although she sewed him off. Until my fist hit his nose, he did not understand well and continued. After an educational conversation, he quickly understood everything and quickly disappeared from the horizon. The dark side in me rejoiced at the opportunity to punish.
Standing in the store, I noticed one greyhound guy climbing out of line. Only the offer to stand at the end of the line and a firm gaze stopped him. The dark side wished a little that they hadn't been able to get his face in.
At one job, they often liked to strain me irrelevantly and overwhelm me with my work. I was green, kind and fluffy. I agreed to do everything. But at one point I realized that you will not be all kind and good. You need to be able to say "no" and fight back those who are trying to run over you. So I realized that the dark side is very much on my side.
After celebrating 25 years, I broke up with the girl, or rather, she left. Almost a year later, she walked up and decided to return to me. She claimed that she was a fool and tried to find and understand herself. But I knew that I was out and about with some guy. I had no one at that moment. The dark side gave me the answer. I agreed and started getting sex from her, but no more. A month later, I began to openly hit on another girl, and sent the former. The dark side enjoyed and cheered when I told my ex about her cheating and where she should go. Revenge is sweet.
I did one project, but it went very tight, and then the client disappeared. Then a month later I found out that a good friend had stolen my project, poured mud on my clients and got a good loot from it. It was very disappointing. It was very difficult to prove by laws, but it was stupid to be indignant. I gave it all up and forgot it until I accidentally met an asshole two years later. Then a wave of indignation swept over me again. He has become richer and more successful than before. Karma did not punish him, so I had to do it! The asshole had cases, not quite legal, that he knew about. I dug everything up using my channels and then turned it over to the right people. He lost his business, a lot of money and received a suspended sentence. He didn't even understand where the karma of retribution came from. But the dark side in me rejoiced. Revenge is just.
There is such a thing as "talion". This is a category of jurisprudence and morality better known as symmetrical retribution. Eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, leg for leg. This is more than fair. The measure of punishment must correspond to the harm and even exceed, so that it is disgraceful.
If someone is trying to deceive and screw you, then you, too, can be free of money. Eye for eye, tooth for tooth. Hit the villain later, when he relaxes and loses his vigilance.
My "dear" enemies. Do you think that I have forgotten and do not notice your dastardly deeds?
I was always touched by the naivety of those who do mean things, but expect to come out dry.
Everyone will receive karma in the form of my blow.
Revenge is a dish to be served cold.
Wait, I haven't forgotten about you. Yes, yes, and my revenge will come to you too …