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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
When everything is bad in life, what have you got to lose? Nice Guy Syndrome makes it difficult to spread your wings and fly to your dreams. Fuck everyone and get down to business. How long do you have left to live? 1, 10, 20 or 30 years old? You do not know. You live once. Everything is possible. Everything in this world is for you!
Is everything going wrong in life? Forced to follow circumstances, not desires? All your life unsuccessfully hitting the glass ceiling, but nothing changes? Very often, the usual good guy syndrome interferes with finding your way and achieving your dreams.
You can be not nerds at school, but a C grade, but still be a good guy. What is the Nice Guy Syndrome? This is a person who has built his attitude towards the world in an attempt to please him. The Nice Guy Syndrome is about the following mistakes he makes every day.
Altruism of the good guy
Taking on someone else's work, additional responsibility and pulling the strap for everyone? The horse worked most of all on the collective farm, but she did not become the chairman. In life, it is important not to be a naive altruist who tries for others, but not for himself.
Stop being a good guy. Show reasonable selfishness by declaring your interests and desires. Claim your right to a better life, a better job, and better girls. You deserve it, not someone else.
Postponing for tomorrow and fighting for a place in the sun
Everything will definitely change in your life, but then. You are waiting for graduation from school, then university or better times. A good case will appear, lucky or the circumstances will turn out well. So a good guy waits for something all his life.
But it is important to understand that a good job, a cool position, a promising business, a lot of money or a beautiful girl are not given from above. They need to be pulled out with the teeth of other people who pretend to be. For all the best in life you need to fight hard.
Nice Guy Perfectionism
The desire to make everything perfect did not bring anyone to good. It is often more important to do something or to do something faster than to achieve its perfection. Perfectionism is a swamp in which every step is hard and does not allow you to move quickly. The best is the enemy of the good.
Opinion of others
Of course, the opinion of other people worries us. But how important is it really? You don't need the approval or encouragement of others to do something. Evaluate your own progress and don't let others get in your way. Other people are no smarter or better than you.
The good guy's fear of change
Sitting in a third-rate job, be content with little and settle for relationships that didn't suit you. You can compromise your whole life, being content with a tit in your hands. You can pretend that you are satisfied, although you are not.
But how disgusting it is to feel like a loser, whose place is in the gutter of life. It is better to take risks, create opportunities, and waste energy on dreams than to die slowly. What have you to lose, except for the shackles?
How to stop being a good guy?
There is no magic pill that will change everything in life, like the pill in the movie "The Matrix". But you have you. Only one person can change life from a boring and hopeless one. Only you can achieve the life of your dreams. What to do? How to Get Rid of Nice Guy Syndrome or Loser Syndrome? You need to pump the following parameters in yourself.
- Athletic appearance and healthy lifestyle.
- Refusal of everything that wastes time and effort.
- Self-confidence and decisiveness in action.
- Development of sociability and communication skills.
- Tough discipline and adherence to a daily routine
- Choosing the right benchmarks and goals.
- Ability to take risks and not stop when difficulties arise.
- The first step to fulfilling your dream is today and every next day. Each!
All my life to be afraid and be content with little. In life, you are happy only at the moment when you do what you dream of. When you don’t put off your life until tomorrow. When life is in full swing, the way is adjustable and on the head, but still hits. Only then will you be happy.
You live once. Everything is possible. Everything in this world is for you!