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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
The modern world does not like individualists and those who live the way they want. Society imposes order and combes one size fits all. But you should not feel guilty, and even less apologize for deciding your own destiny. Be free.
The tolerant world has brought us to the point where we begin to apologize or feel guilty for freedom at all. You don't have to do that, think that, or act that way. I would like to send all the advisers to the forest, as well as their feigned hypocrisy. We got to teach and criticize. Take care of your life, and do not look for flaws in others.
There are many things that are silly to apologize for. How to learn not to feel guilty? How to start defending your interests? How to live your life and put the critics in their place?
Don't apologize or feel guilty about the following
“To live the way you want is not selfishness. Selfishness is when others have to think and live the way you want. " English writer and poet Oscar Wilde
You can dump a girl and not feel guilty
If a girl leaves a man, then he himself is to blame for not being good enough. Even if the girl goes to another man because of the money. But if a man leaves a girl, then this begins. Everyone around him accuses him of using the girl, wasting her best years and cheating all the time. The man is a scoundrel and a scoundrel. Stop. What nonsense?
The man is not to blame for the fact that they did not agree in character and there are no prospects for the future. A man can also stop loving or find another girl. A man can freely part with a girl without feeling guilty as soon as the relationship has exhausted itself. He doesn't have to apologize and feel like a villain. A man is a free man.
You can think and do what you want
As soon as you do not what others want, a tub of slops is poured over you. You disappointed, hurt, or acted wrong. You do not understand anything in life, you think only of yourself, you make mistakes and you are a complete egoist.
Critics, whiners and nerds will pester you all the time. They think they can control your life. You should only live the way they want. You have to do what they want. Should I apologize or feel guilty? No. The surrounding people became insolent. Tell them to stick their noses in their business, not yours.
You may not want to get married and not feel guilty
Everyone tells you to get married: parents, friends, acquaintances, colleagues, the girl's parents and the girl herself. Everyone is discussing that you haven’t walked up yet, you’re afraid of responsibility, you’re not old enough and you don’t understand anything in life. Stop. Why are there so many “wise” advisers who have more problems in life than you do?
If a man does not want to marry, then this is his choice. A man may not be completely sure of a girl, does not like something, doubts about the future of the family, or worries about the absence of a marriage contract. A man may simply not want to get married yet. This is his conscious and adult choice. All people who impose their desires are stupid, not you.
Men should not apologize for their unwillingness to marry. He knows best what he wants. A man gets married when he himself wants it, and not according to the "wishes" of those around him. The man himself controls his status.
You can have your own opinion that is different from others
Everyone has become so touchy that now it is impossible to even think otherwise. A crowd of zealous fanatics (religion, feminists, various movements, political parties) appears, splashing saliva and explaining that you are wrong. Freedom of opinion no longer interests anyone. You are either with people, or their enemy, who needs to be exterminated.
You can have your opinion and defend it. If others disagree with him, then these are their problems, not yours. You don't have to swim in their swamp, succumb to their prejudices and think in their patterns. Apologizing and feeling guilty is silly. The sheriff does not care about the problems of the Indians.
Stop being afraid of everything. Stop apologizing for living your life. Stop feeling guilty. You don't have to be with a gray and monotonous crowd. Be yourself and live the way you want, not others. This is freedom.