2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
Men's life is far from sugar, as most of the fairer sex likes to think. Men do not ride like cheese in butter and have even more problems than women. What problems, fears and complexes do men face? How to overcome basic male fears?
The modern world is changing very quickly, which makes it difficult to keep up with all its changes. Sometimes men do not want to accept changes that are not always to their liking. The modern man has a lot of fears and even more problems that must be solved every day.
Society is in no hurry to help men. Film companies and the media portray men in a stereotypical way. The first option is negative characters. The man is exposed as a womanizer, a moron and a traitor. The man is unkempt, ugly and stupid. A man earns poorly, loves to drink and is a loser.
The second version of the stereotype is a man who looks like a superhero. He's rich, handsome, and in great shape. A man has power, real estate, money, cars. It is an impossible and unattainable ideal that will never be attainable.
As a result, there are only two extremes that men do not accept. The world is not black and white, but has many shades. But modern society does not understand this.
Men are perceived as consumables. Men die in coal mines, waste their health in hazardous industries, die in wars, and more often commit suicide. The death of men is often taken for granted.
Fear in a relationship
Men have problems, fears and complexes when dealing with the opposite sex. Fear of getting rejected when meeting. Fear of being clumsy with a girl. Fear of running into a mercantile girl. Fear of contacting a woman who is windy. Fear of wasting your time, energy and resources on the wrong girl. Fear of not living up to women's expectations, which are often unreasonably high.
What to do? Think with brains, be adequate in assessing relationships, defend your rights and not allow yourself to be manipulated. Open your eyes wider when choosing your girlfriend. Be guided not only by appearance.
Fear of male sexual problems
All men are afraid of becoming bankrupt in bed. With age, men more and more often have misfires, which drive into depression. Erection hardness and potency are not what they used to be. Fear of male sexual problems oppresses the stronger sex.
What to do? A healthy lifestyle, sports, a balanced diet, Kegel exercises and a regular intimate life will help here.
Fear of living a meaningless life
All men want to leave something in this world after themselves, so as not to walk the earth aimlessly. Therefore, men want children, dream of reaching heights or plan to do something good. Men live much less than women. It puts pressure on men when you understand the transience of life. The fear of being forgotten, as if it never happened.
What to do? Make time for children and grandchildren. To do something good for a people, a country or a planet. Think wider and further.
Men's fears and problems are pretty predictable. But even knowing the solutions, it is difficult to accept all this and defeat your problems. May the strength be with you, brother.