2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
The stronger sex is pushed all my life to be some kind of invented "real man". True, in this case, the word "should" is usually added. Let's start with being a real man, you don't have to meet other people's standards and imposed criteria. The myth about a real man who gets men all the time.
Even as a boy, you were reproached with the fact that you belong to the stronger sex and must do something against your will. Over the years, you will increasingly be reminded of belonging to the stronger sex and men. You must be a real man! This is usually followed by a set of rules that must not be broken, or something must be done.
You may have slightly different plans for life, when you want to travel, understand yourself, get to know different girls and not bind yourself with your family. You can drive to the ends of the world, meet thousands of different beauties, learn something new and look for yourself. You decide for yourself when you want a stable job, settle down, get married, find a permanent girlfriend and start a family. You yourself choose the road you will follow, and all the advisers can be free. Better to let them go about their boring life, and not poke their noses into someone else's.
You yourself are the judge of your talents, your professional field and your self-realization. All advisers will reproach you with the words that a real man does not do this. But isn't this complete nonsense? A real man just does what he sees fit and interesting for himself. He does not look back at advisers, critics, spiteful critics and other tactless people.
The myth of a real man is very common, especially in Hollywood films, women's magazines and other media. It's time to get rid of the old understanding of the male image. A real man is one who does as he sees fit. Nobody can set him requirements, wishes, standards and restrictions.
You don't have to live up to the fictional standards of society. You are a man, which means you are free in your will and choice of your life.