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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
Starting from school, they are trying to drive us into frames and teach us to live as it is considered correct. But life is only wonderful and happy when you stop being afraid of being strange and yourself.
It took me 30 years and a lot of experience to understand this truth. Stop playing other people's roles and being who you are not. You are really different. In kindergarten, school, educational institutions and the army, they tried to level us all. Make the same. To impose the same values and rules of the game. But that won't make you happy unless you are yourself.
Life is great when you stop being afraid of being weird
1. Ignore spiteful critics
They will always condemn you and say that you do not live like that. But the thoughts, feelings and desires of strangers do not affect your reality. You don't have to live up to other people's expectations or try to please them. Spiteful critics can say whatever they want behind your back. Unhappy people always like to discuss happy ones and are jealous of them. Ignore spiteful critics, gossip, envy. I don't give a damn about those who are far behind your back.
2. Determine what is important to you
Some people want to sleep with as many girls as possible, while others are looking for love. Some want to snatch as much money as possible, while others are looking for their favorite job. Some want to get married and settle down as quickly as possible, while others want to find their way on travel. Determine what is really important to you. What you want, not what others advise. Don't be afraid to be weird. Choose your personal goals and dreams. It will make you happy.
3. Accept your flaws and imperfections
Each has flaws, it can be physical or moral difficulties. But when you accept them, when you allow yourself to be imperfect, then everything becomes easier. You can look awkward, have an imperfect appearance, but be happy. Accept your flaws and imperfections. Such people are beautiful in their self-confidence. They are the best ideal beauties who are full of complexes and doubts.
4. Live without regret and full breast
Forgive your mistakes and move on. Part with people who betrayed or abandoned you. Throw out unhappy love without leaving for months in depression. Do not wrap snot on your sleeve and do not feel sorry for yourself. Move forward and live without regrets. Take action, take risks, burn and live, not vegetate.
Life is great when you stop being afraid of being weird. Be yourself…