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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
A person wants to find himself in this world, realize the potential of the individual and find happiness. Not everyone succeeds in realizing themselves, and many remain slaves to circumstances. Each of us has many potential opportunities, but do we manage to use them? How to realize yourself in life?
“One of the things my parents taught me is never listen to other people's expectations. You have to live your life and fulfill only your own expectations, and this is the only thing that really worries me. " Tiger Woods
- Why can't I realize myself in life?
- I am already 16-50 years old, but I still don't know what I want.
- Who am I, what do I want, where am I going and why am I living?
- I have a normal job, but it's not mine.
- Everything in life is more or less good, but I am unhappy.
- Why doesn't your hobbies bring you the income you need and your regular job sucks?
- I am thrown from one extreme to another.
- I did not realize myself in anything and did not take place.
- My desires do not at all coincide with my capabilities.
- I am not interested in anything and everything quickly gets bored.
- How to make your dream come true?
It is often difficult in life to find harmony with yourself and find your way. In the nature of each of us lies the desire to realize ourselves, but this is difficult to do in reality. American psychologist Abraham Harold drew up Maslow's pyramid of needs, where he indicated the basic needs and desires of a person.
Self-realization is the highest human need. If you are interested in this question, then you are an extraordinary person. How to realize yourself in life? Several factors interfere with this.
In most cases, the problem of self-realization lies in the following situations:
- A person himself does not know what he wants from life.
- An unrealistic dream that is unlikely to be realized.
- Inability to develop and overcome difficulties.
How to find your place in life? How to realize yourself in life?
1. What to do if you don't know what you want from life?
The path to self-realization is not easy. When you don't know what you want, you need to start looking for the answer. Stop doing what you don't like. Exclude to the maximum from life everything that interferes and to which the soul does not lie. Compartments are all unnecessary. Then give yourself time to rest and gain strength.
When there is more energy and time, then there will be strength for something new. Then there will be an opportunity and desire to search for something new. There will be a chance to try something interesting that I have wanted for a long time.
Immerse yourself in life and watch your feelings. What arouses interest, what is your heart, what do you want to do? Go outside the box more often. It is possible that your talents lie outside the plane of today's sphere of activity and lifestyle.
2. What if the dream is unlikely to be realized and difficult to achieve?
Often we are driven by naive dreams from childhood, which were imposed on us by fairy tales or silly films about the success of others. Become an astronaut, superstar, billionaire or legendary athlete?
It's time to take off your rose-colored glasses. Start small, and then you will see. Don't chase unrealizable dreams, but look for real ones. The dream and goal must be achievable. Set a goal, make a plan, and start acting. Step by step.
3. What if nothing happens?
You don't need to collect problems, but you need to solve them. If you are not satisfied with the job, look for another. No friends - talk more, and do not wait for them to appear themselves. Personal life does not add up - start getting to know each other more often and look for those with whom you are really good. If you don't like the figure, start playing sports. You need to stop being lazy and just start doing. Persistently, regularly and persistently.100% of unsuccessful attempts will be unsuccessful.
Life presents you with many potential opportunities and chances. The question is what you do and how you behave. Wake up!