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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
The smarter and better a person is, the harder it is for him to become happier. Less intelligent relatives are easier to become happy when you can't find yourself, happiness and harmony in life. How to be happy if you are smart?
Ever notice that smarter people are more unhappy? They fool and suffer a lot. The intellect is capable of delivering many problems that the more stupid ones do not have. How to become happy and find yourself in life?
How to be happy?
Requirements too high
The smarter a person is, the more requirements he has. The smart one knows exactly what he wants and deserves, but refuses to be content with less. Great demands are difficult to satisfy, and for this reason one becomes unhappy.
What to do? We did not come to this world to earn many millions and become the biggest boss. Happiness is outside of material things. Focus on the things that make you happy and enjoyable, not just achieving your ambitious goals. All our life we will go towards our goals. On the way, enjoy the road and try to become happy, and not just run without looking ahead.
Standards too high for people
An intelligent person makes high demands not only on himself, but also on the people around him. He carefully chooses the environment, friends, acquaintances, soul mate. Too high requirements lead to the fact that it is difficult for him to find someone for himself. Sometimes a smart person finds a soul mate and friends, but is secretly dissatisfied with his choice.
2. You doubt your choice. Try to accept people as they are. Accept all the flaws and complexities of character. You can try to push your half or friends to develop. They can pull up to your level.
3. You are unhappy in relationships and life. If you chose the wrong half, friends and entourage, then go in search. Find those with whom you are really good, and do not suffer for the rest of your life.
How to be happy?
Stop looking for deep meaning in everything that happens. Sometimes in this world everything happens due to chance. Calm down and enjoy life.
Throw self-flagellation and ruthless criticism of yourself in the trash. Stop talking about yourself for making a mistake or not being perfect. Forgive yourself and love.
It is difficult for a person who is too smart to please in everything until he is indulgent to this world. Accept this world with all its imperfections.
Stop getting hung up on something that doesn't work out. Some unattainable dreams are not destined to come true. Throw away this tough-to-pull suitcase without a handle.
This will release your strength, time, money and energy. And then find yourself a new dream for which you want to wake up.
Life is too short to be unhappy. Be happy. You deserved it.