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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
What kind of nonsense is happening to you and why is everything around that you don't want at all? This is life. It turned out to be not at all as rosy as I had imagined before. But maybe it's time to dare to do something new? How to decide on a change in life? How do you find the courage to be yourself?
Very often we worry that it is not worth it. And we try to forget what we want. We lost sight of what we really want more than anything in the world. We have forgotten how to distinguish truth from husk. We do not live, but exist, content with little. We drag out existence, not live. We play someone else's role, afraid to declare ourselves.
As a result of our life's journey, each of us ended up at the point where we would not want to be at all. Even if you returned to the past, you would not even immediately realize what needed to be changed. But this is impossible, and thinking about it will drive you more into despondency. But if something can be changed in life, then only from today. You can take a little more time. But you will never be younger than you are today.
How do you decide to change?
“Why the hell are we sailing along the river of life like sacks of manure? Live! Even if you are bags of manure, row against the stream, live! Arrange mayhem, add twists and turns to your plot. And then at the climax, in addition to the baggage of trauma and failure, you will gain wisdom, your own, and not told by mom and dad. " The film "Breaking Bad".
Do you have problems, difficulties, affairs, depression, grief and a lot of troubles? Are you in trouble? And someone has an incurable disease in their life! Tell the cancer patient that you are in trouble, that you don’t want to live, and that you are even less willing to grow old. Everything is relative. At such a moment, you understand that all your difficulties are nonsense, which is not even worth the extra worries.
There's a good movie with Johnny Depp called Breaking Bad or The Professor. In the film, a professor of literature, Richard Brown, is given a fatal diagnosis. Then the professor rethinks his life. He makes the last months of his life more interesting than the previous 50 years.
He took it upon himself to be himself. The courage to be yourself. Courage not to agree to compromises, as if consoling for the failure to fulfill desires. We are all limply sailing along the river of life, not wanting to admit that we are afraid of change.
How do you find the courage to be yourself?
How to decide on a change in life? Think about the transience of life and the plot of your destiny. Every minute you write a novel of your life. What will you have in the novel? Will it be boring and mediocre reading, where the reader will fall asleep already on page 10? Will everything be trite, hackneyed and boring?
“Let's drink, let's drink to the fact that every second we are writing the book of our life. Let's make it a great novel, or at least an interesting read, with shootings and bed scenes. " The film "Breaking Bad".
The courage to be yourself. How to extract it from the inside in order to decide on something large-scale and desirable? Here are some tips to help you start making a difference. You are old enough to start living for real.
1. Soon you will die. You will truly die. Realize yourself mortal. Understand that life is fleeting and very short.
2. Don't feel sorry for yourself. Years do not pity you, and self-pity is destructive. You can drown in it. It's pointless.
3. Don't look for someone to blame. Life is out of control because of your fault. Only you are responsible for your future destiny.
4. Admit that you tried, but were simply wrong. You lived and did not what you wanted. But now you admit your mistake.
5. If life gets worse, then you are doing something wrong. So you are going in the wrong direction. Change the motion vector. Stop doing what makes you unhappy.
6. Why should the world respect you? Why? For what?
7. Give this world the maximum of yourself and your goals. Be strong to leave your mark in this world, and not disappear without a trace.
8. Don't let mediocrity consume you. You're too good to let your life be wasted.
9. Seize opportunities and chances. Remember that sometimes a chance is only given once in a lifetime. Don't miss it.
10. Do not expect a miracle, but create opportunities yourself. Try it yourself, fight and achieve. There will be no miracle.
11. Awaken the courage to be yourself. It's time to live differently. The time to live according to your desires and dreams has come.
12. Separate everything in life that is empty and the husk, from the important. What do you really want from life? Is it worth wasting even a minute on nonsense?
13. Love life, and for this, believe in death. It is clear that you do not want to say goodbye to life and disappear. But we are all mortal. This is what helps to truly love life.
14. Aim at the dream and stay on track. You are doing everything right.
15. Life is short. Enjoy the moment now. Live bright.
“We have completely forgotten why we are here - on this sinful earth. It is our duty to live this life as brightly as possible, but few people pay this debt. Enjoy the very fact of existence. Try to make death your closest companion, so that at last, even for a second, for a moment, you can estimate the time that is meted out here. And most importantly, do not be afraid to live, and then you will not be afraid to die. Time is merciless and you have never been closer to death than right now. " The film "Breaking Bad".
Do something important now, not later. The main character of the movie "Breaking Bad" Johnny Depp did not wear sunglasses for the weather. Why did he do it? He just wouldn't have time to vilify them during the beach season.
Maybe you should also put on a festive costume, do something important and start fulfilling your dream today? Otherwise, the sunglasses will not be worn, and you will already be in a different place.
Do you have problems in your life? And someone has a fatal disease. Make the next years of your life more interesting than your whole past life. The courage to be yourself within you. You just need to wake her up.