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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
How to find a pretty girl? A banal question that arises in the minds of absolutely all representatives of the strong half of humanity at a certain stage of their life.
It's amazing that you can rarely meet a young lady with a similar request - how to find a handsome guy. And it’s true. Girls are interested in a different criterion by which they will look for gentlemen. A girl is more likely to be puzzled by how to find a rich guy than a handsome one, admit it.
The question arises - why do girls and guys look at life so differently, and look for different things in each other? Why a girl will fall in love with a rich man rather than with a poor man, we discussed earlier in the articles posted on our website.
Today we will consider why men are looking for beautiful girls, what drives them in this choice, and where you can find beautiful representatives of the fair half of humanity.
If a woman, choosing a wealthy man, strives for well-being and financial stability for herself and her children, whom she is ready to give birth to from this man, then a man, choosing a beautiful woman, thereby raises his status.
Now let's look at how this happens.
Why does a man need a beautiful girl?
On a subconscious level, a man views a woman as the main trophy that he will demonstrate to society.
It is important for a man to have a beautiful female in his companions, thereby his strength, significance and status grow in the eyes of other males.
A man by nature is a hunter, conqueror and winner. In nature, the strongest males (for example, in a pack of wolves), capable of obtaining the best trophies (food), are accepted by other members of the pack with respect and reverence. Such a male acquires the status of a leader and the ability to breed with the female he chooses.
We are certainly not animals. But the man's intuitive feeling that the presence of a beautiful female (as the best trophy) is capable of raising his level to the level and status of a leader, pushes him to search for such a female.
More successful and strong-minded men, of course, also do not mind marrying a beautiful woman, but they are much less confused by this than men with low self-esteem.
Which girl is considered beautiful in modern society? After all, the standards of beauty in the present century are very different from the standards of the last century or the Renaissance.
More recently, artificial breasts, buttocks and lips were considered the standard of female beauty. The girls enlarged their lips, not knowing the measure, thereby disfiguring themselves. Many representatives of the beautiful half of humanity, erasing their individuality (in the literal sense), rushed in droves to cosmetologists to make themselves “beautiful”.
Over the past few years, girls' "similarity" to each other has ceased to be considered something expensive, and is now viewed as a bad form.
Doctors - cosmetologists of eminent beauty clinics, professionals in their field, who respect themselves and value their reputation, never follow the whim of clients who want to spoil their appearance.
Currently, “dear” women do not try to change themselves, but emphasize their advantages and hide their shortcomings. But this is more of a girlish topic, we will consider it another time. Now let's talk about which girl is considered beautiful and which is not. And is there anything more important than outer beauty?
If you conduct a survey among men, which girl will seem beautiful in their opinion, statistics will show us very different answers.
Among the external parameters of beauty, there may be diametrically opposite characteristics - someone likes thin girls, the build of teenage girls, with small girlish breasts, and someone loves curvaceous forms - steep hips and mouth-watering breasts. Blondes, brunettes, redheads, light-haired, ladies with brown hair are equally liked by representatives of the strong half of humanity.
Summing up the above, we can say that girls like different ones. Then the question arises - what is a beautiful girl like? The answer on the surface is that a beautiful girl is a girl recognized as beautiful by most men.
There is not a single woman on the planet who is recognized as beautiful by one hundred percent of the men surveyed.
Have you ever met an insanely beautiful girl, and having met her, and having entered into a conversation, you found her not so dazzling as she seemed to you at first glance? Or the opposite case. You met an ordinary-looking girl, started communicating with her and realized that she was insanely beautiful? Surely you have come across this more than once.
Do you know what the secret is? In addition to external beauty, showiness, grooming and the ability to present yourself correctly are also important!
All this works in a complex, and is served as a "package".
By itself, the external beauty of a girl, not supported by the ability to present oneself correctly, by a beautiful voice, sexual movements, a graceful gait and a spectacular wave of eyelashes, does not mean anything, and quickly dissipates like dust, leaving no trace in a man's heart.
Well-groomed and spectacular ladies are engraved in the memory of a man faster than a beautiful dummy, whose name he will not remember later.
Thanks to these qualities, girls who do not reach the standards of beauty in terms of external parameters have no less, and often much more, suitors than their beautiful competitors.
A spectacular and well-groomed lady, talking to a man in a languid sexy voice, casting a shameless glance into his sparkling eyes, will drive him crazy once or twice, and without possessing the notorious "90-60-90".
There is one more female feature that gives her additional points and bonuses in the eyes of a man.
This is a dance … Surprisingly, you can fall in love with a sexy dancing girl very quickly. A man often falls in love with smooth and beautiful body movements even before he managed to make out in detail the facial features of the one that drove him crazy with the dance. Later, getting acquainted with the girl he liked, the man already finds her quite beautiful. This often happens in cafes, nightclubs, at parties of mutual acquaintances.
From here we draw conclusions: the concepts of physical beauty are very vague, vague, and depend on many related parameters - showiness, body movements, voice, ability to maintain a conversation. Of course, her look is important … This is a separate topic for conversation. You can fall in love with just one look, if you know how to do it right. But about this, as you know, another time …
So, we realized that there are no narrow concepts of beauty itself, as such.
Accordingly, when asked where to find a beautiful girl, I can safely say - everywhere!
Beautiful girls everywhere and everywhere! Spectacular and self-sufficient are also almost everywhere. But it will be much more successful if you meet a beautiful, spectacular and, moreover, who knows how to present herself at the same time! But this is much more difficult.
In fact, the question of where to meet a beautiful girl is usually asked by men whose hearts are still free. External beauty is a concept, as you can see, not concrete, and besides, it is passing quickly. Someone wise said - "Do not drink water from your face", and if you are looking for a wife, future companion of life, companion and ally, then external beauty is not the parameter by which you should choose a person for life together.
If the beloved woman matches your parameters of beauty, it is very good. If not, you yourself will not notice how you will soon cease to care about it. The loving eyes of a loved one, on the contrary, are the most beautiful and most beloved eyes in the world. The soul mate of a loved one is nearby - the most important and most valuable parameters necessary for life, which you will appreciate only when time erases the remnants of former beauty from the face and body of a loved one, revealing the wonderful qualities of his pure soul …