2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
Maybe it's enough to pretend that everything is fine, but this life suits you? You dreamed not about it all around. How did it happen that you betrayed all your dreams and how can it radically change today?
Each new day is similar to the previous one, a modest set of entertainment on weekends, scheduled vacations. You do what you need, not what you want every day. You run like a squirrel in a circle, you are deeply engrossed in everyday life, and your dreams have remained somewhere far away.
How did it happen that you betrayed all your dreams? How did you end up in the place where you are now? All the time it seemed a little more and you will heal, but nothing came of it. Plans have not been fulfilled, goals have not been achieved, and dreams have been trampled underfoot. How so?
Sometimes you meet people who have achieved what they dreamed of. They left for another city, changed jobs, and began to fulfill their dreams. These people are happy and spontaneous, but how do you feel? Are you jealous and want to be in their place?
Maybe it's enough to pretend that everything is fine, but this life suits you? You dreamed not about it all around. Stop saying "someday." Until the clock stops, you need to act.
The dreams you betrayed can be saved. What to do?
1. Define a dream
What exactly do you want? If you yourself do not know where to move, then it is useless to even try. It will be aimless walking in circles. Define a dream and set a goal.
2. Make a plan
Choose your priority tasks. Long-term goals and ambitious plans are best broken down into small feasible tasks. Do you want to become a programmer? Nobody will take a beginner right away. Sign up for courses, study English and do extra classes at home. Six months later, you can already try to go for an interview. So in any business.
3. Regularity of actions
Stop being lazy and put off everything until tomorrow. The main friend on the path to the sword is regularity. Pick a time when you are best at working on your dream and most productive. Work on your goal regularly and do not skip classes twice in a row.
Focus on the positive, on the way to your dream, and this will cut the path to it in half. In 80% of cases, whether you will be happy depends not on the external environment, but on the internal state. Pay attention to positives and achievements. Enjoy life and every moment.
5. Get rid of excess
Anything that does not help to achieve the goal is superfluous. Stop being distracted by stupid pastime, useless meetings, exhausting relationships, past grudges and obligations that have tired you. It is best to go light, and not to pull a heavy backpack of unnecessary useless junk.
6. Reward yourself
Celebrate your successes and new conquered frontiers. Promise yourself to buy something if certain conditions are met. Waiting for a reward will motivate you in difficult times and help you organize your life.
7. Take action
The dreams you betrayed can be saved. 95% of people who read this article will dream, fly in dreams and do nothing further. Only 5% of people decide to change their lives and take action. These 5% will achieve what they dream of. And the remaining 95% will envy them, saying that they were just lucky. What group do you belong to?