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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
An employee of the internal intelligence and federal law enforcement agencies of the United States told how to please people, make a good impression and work into trust, so that you are considered your boyfriend.
Often people dream of having many friends, acquaintances and girls, but it does not always work out. To build social bonds, you just need to be able to communicate. The FBI officer told how to better behave during a conversation in order to please the interlocutor as much as possible.
How to make a good impression with the FBI method?
1. What to do when you meet
FBI research shows that people are more willing to talk about themselves than about other things. Look for other people's thoughts, dreams, desires and opinions, but do not judge them. What interests a person, what does he think about and what does he want? Let the person choose the topics for conversation. After that, all you have to do is listen and ask leading questions. But do not judge or criticize what the person says. Otherwise, he will close, instead of talking to you.
2. The best questions for the interlocutor
Everyone's life is filled with different events, difficulties and deeds. The FBI recommends asking the person about his life. The question "How are you?" more formal and should not be used. The FBI advises to look for burning topics for the interlocutor. Ask what interesting things happened in a person's life, how are things at work, what are the successes, troubles and problems? The main thing is to hook the interlocutor, and then
3. Stop your ego
The FBI advises keeping an eye on your ego. Stop your ego trying to draw attention to itself. There is no need to persistently talk about your life or about what interests you. In this case, the interlocutor will be bored and the conversation will go out. Do not insert your five cents when telling a similar incident with you, which is "even better and cooler" than the story of the interlocutor. Calm down your ego when it wants to argue, criticize and fight with the interlocutor. Do not try to appear smart and strong, but mentally put the interlocutor first.
4. Help the interlocutor to open up
How to make people feel at ease? Have you noticed that we are more willing to tell our life to a stranger than to our surroundings? The fact is that a stranger seems to us to be someone with whom nothing connects us. This makes us more open. We are ready to speak more without fear of judgment. Try to seem like a stranger, don't look for mutual friends between you and other connections.
5. Watch your body language
During a conversation, your body language says more about you than you do. The FBI recommends smiling first. It inspires sympathy and trust. Don't hide your hands, don't cross your limbs, and keep your posture free for communication. Sit or stand straight without stooping. Relax your eyebrows and face for a relaxed look. Nod to the beat of the other person's words, demonstrating feedback. Watch your body language and try to look friendly.