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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
Many people wonder about unfulfilled plans and dreams. Why don't life plans come true and things don't go as they wanted? The planned plans are destined to come true only if you implement them correctly. Plan is nothing, planning is everything.
Every new year and a certain period of time we start to make plans. But new life collapses along with the plan when it fails the test of harsh reality. What's the matter? Why is it easy to fail even if done right? Why are the outlined plans ideal only in theory but not in practice?
Why don't the plans come true?
In life, we concentrate only on the initial attitudes. We believe that having a perfect plan is the panacea for all victories and success. You can start life perfectly: study well, get an excellent education, get a promising job and have a long-term relationship with a good soul mate. Should everything be perfect? We understand very well that this does not happen. This is just a theory and an initial plan.
Everything in life is not going so smoothly and not according to the original plan. It is impossible to foresee all the obstacles, difficulties and changes in the situation. It's like driving a car, on a road, to a desired goal. It is important not to decide to reach your destination. It is important to keep an eye on the road and not let the steering wheel go down. Traffic, weather, road conditions, road signs, pedestrians and other participants. On the road, it is not the plan to get there that is important, but the road to the goal itself and its subsequent continuous adjustment.
What to do to make plans come true and become reality?
Why don't the plans come true? The point is that we overestimate the initial planning and systematically underestimate the benefits of further adjustments. Any perfect plan falls apart and any good relationship falls apart if you only hope for the initial plan.
When we have difficulties and problems, we decide that the original plan was unsuccessful. The plan did not come true and failed, although it is not. American General and future US President Dwight Eisenhower said: “Plan is nothing, planning is everything. Any plan becomes obsolete the moment you complete its development. But in the planning process, you and your subordinates acquire one view of the situation and the criteria for making a decision, therefore, at the moment of surprise, they will choose the right decision."
General Dwight Eisenhower understood that when meeting with enemy troops, his initial plan would become outdated and would need to be adjusted according to the situation. So it is in life. Remember how many amendments have been issued to laws and the constitution. Each plan is only a rough outline of what to do. Continuous planning is more important.
Good grades in school and university are good only in theory. But in real life, it is more important to be able to adjust your actions than to climb ahead and bang your forehead against the wall. So yesterday's excellent students cannot find a place for themselves in life, and more flexible C-students become successful.
How to keep a diary so that your plans come true? Write in it not only a plan, but also changes in actions and a new strategy. A plan is a sketch.
Whom to pray to for the plans to come true? Calling to God is good, but what you do before and after is more important. What is needed is not an initial plan, but an adjusted plan and work on it.
Why don't life plans come true? Plan is nothing, planning is everything. Or rather, your plan is normal, but not only that is important. Only through constant corrections and very fine adjustments can the goal be achieved.
And let all your plans and dreams come true …