Everything is bad with you, but someday everything will be fine? Don't lie to yourself

2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08

In life it always seems that a bright, bright and happy future awaits you. It will come very soon, you just need to finish school, university, change jobs, wait for a certain time or event. But a happy life will never come unless you do the following.

"The longer you wait, the more likely you are waiting in the wrong place" Elchin Safarli

All the time we expect changes, after which real life will begin, and not the one that is now. It always seems that a bright life is about to begin, but you need to endure a little more, suffer and wait. Sound familiar?

When you finish your studies, find a better job, meet someone, something will happen, summer will come, start a family, the situation will change, someone will help or be lucky in life. We are waiting for a certain moment or event, after which everything will work out.

But that will never happen. Do not lie to yourself. A happy life will never come. You are one of the billions of people who suffer from life deferred syndrome. You live only with dreams of the future, not in the present, which you secretly hate.

In 90% of cases, the right situation never happens. And if this happens, then it brings something completely different from what a person expects and wants. A person will spend his whole life at a broken trough, but there will be no fairy tale.

What if you have been waiting for something all your life?

• Are you unhappy with your life today?
• Confess that you have a life-deferred syndrome when you expect something incomprehensible.
• Realize that in real life there is no rehearsal, but you are living right now.
• Determine what exactly you are betting on and what exactly you are waiting for.
• Why can't we act now? What's stopping you?
• All your explanations for waiting are laziness and fear to act right now.
• What exactly do you want to achieve in the future?
• How much time are you willing to spend on achieving your dream every day?
• What can you do for your goals today? 2-5 actions.
• What options, ways and opportunities are there to get closer to your dreams?
• What prevents you from starting to act step by step, starting today?
• Make a list of 5-10 steps you will take today, tomorrow, and this month.
• Draw a detailed plan to achieve your goals in X steps and Y time.
• Start living not in the energy saving mode, but in the maximum calculation 100%.

Stop looking for reasons why you don't do anything for your dreams. A happy and vibrant life will never come if you just wait and hope.