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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
It often happens that, having left the starting point, towards a happy and prosperous life, we get stuck for many years somewhere along the way. We find ourselves on an endless road, where there are many problems, difficulties and troubles that do not see an end in sight. How to get out of a life crisis and become happy?
We evaluate the path we have lived and find that we never made it to the goal. As a child, we were sure that everything would turn out incredibly cool. But now more and more doubts gnaw. What has been achieved in terms of career, personal relationships, financial wealth, social status, having friends, physical condition and self-realization?
You are constantly pondering the existing life, but it is far from ideal and the desired result. What to do? Only the novel of the same name by Nikolai Chernyshevsky comes to mind, but what to do is not entirely clear. What to do when you don't know what to do?
How to get out of the crisis in life? What if it's bad?
In most cases, it rarely happens that everything is bad at once. Usually there are large-scale problems in one thing: career, personal life, self-realization, or something else. One global problem undermines the mood. As a result, everything is seen in gloomy colors, and the person plunges into depression and crisis.
The most important thing is to find what you are most unhappy with. What is the root cause of the rest of the troubles? What worries you the most?
No other half and lonely?
A rolling stone gathers no moss. Meet regularly with the opposite sex. Every day try to meet 3-4 girls in public transport or on the street. Every day! In 3 months you will approach 90-120 girls. You will have someone to choose your girlfriend from. But if you wait for a miracle and approach 1 girl a month, then there is a 95% chance that you will remain alone for the rest of your life.
Doesn't a relationship with a girl bring happiness?
Are there insoluble problems and conflicts in a relationship? Are you constantly quarreling and unhappy? Maybe you don't fit together? Try to cut this Gordian knot and find yourself another other half. If you’re unhappy most of the time, then it’s time to break up. If everything is fine most of the time, then try to resolve your differences.
Problems at work?
If there is a conflict with bosses or colleagues, then you should try to resolve it. If the bosses are not at all satisfied with the salary or job, but you should change it. There are many specialties and places to work in the world. Stop being afraid of change. Japanese scientists are advised to change jobs every 5 years. Stop shaking and hold on to your crappy place.
Few friends and like-minded people?
No one to hang out with and have fun with? Take action. Get out to different places more often, do not sit at home, communicate with the people around you and be friendly. Find people who have similar hobbies and interests. This can be a gym, running, photography, football, martial arts, or a foreign language.
Lost the meaning of life?
If you have lost the meaning of life, then look for new dreams. What do you dream about? Stop moping, think about your goals, make a plan, and get started. On the way to dreams, you get the feeling that you are living. Over time, many new opportunities arise that I did not even count on. Move, not sit still.
How to get out of the crisis in life? Find your weak points and move forward. Don't expect miracles. If you find yourself in a bad place, this is not a reason to stay there. If you are in the ass, then it is unnecessary to continue to sit there. Move forward along the road. There, ahead, the future awaits you.