Positive change

2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08

Unrealized potential brings us pain and disappointment every day. You can hide behind abstruse phrases, chic excuses, far-fetched facts, a desire for comfort and beautiful philosophical concepts. But fate will ask from everyone at the end of life. How did you self-actualize in life? Did you take your chances or did you waste everything?

When nothing good happens in life, then he chose the wrong path or plan. Stop waiting for everything to change by itself. It doesn't work that way. Do you want to be successful and happy, but don't know where to start? Follow the advice in this article.

Will it be scary? Of course. Everyone is scared. Talented, smart, experienced, lucky, handsome, rich, successful and confident. It's always scary to start something new and big. Take responsibility, take risks and create opportunities. But there is no other way out.

Positive changes in life

“All great changes in the life of one person, as well as of all mankind, begin and take place in thought. In order for a change in feelings and actions to occur, a change in thought must first of all occur. " Lev Nikolaevich Tolstoy

All your difficulties, problems and obstacles can be solved

Don't think that you are unique like a snowflake. The uniqueness of people is greatly exaggerated. We are more alike than different. It is the concentration on uniqueness that prevents us from achieving more. Positive changes in life will appear the moment you take off the rose-colored glasses of the uniqueness of your life and situation.

Others already had all the problems and difficulties. All questions have already been asked and all answers received. The obsession with uniqueness prevents us from looking for standard good exits, working solutions, and proven options. The surrounding reality is commonplace, as are your problems.

Look for clues, answers and solutions. In most cases they are on the surface, we just don't like them or scare us. Unhappy in relationships, at work, in this city, in this area, in your lifestyle, in this body? Change. Find your other half, find a better job, get out of town, learn a new profession, change your lifestyle, upgrade and improve your body.

Your difficulties in life are not unique, and the solutions are quite obvious. But are you ready to admit it and start acting?

Choose development instead of stagnation

Five years ago, we were completely different. Remembering ourselves at that time, we considered ourselves stupid and naive. Now we are completely different, but in the next five years we will consider ourselves not entirely adequate again.

Stability and reliability are illusory. Every day we change and become different. Don't grab hold of the past and the proven. Do not cling to already non-working solution schemes. Don't say it was better before. Don't be an old man who's aged ahead of time. Sluggishness makes us uncompetitive and throws us to the sidelines of life.

The world is changing with you, but that's okay. Move forward every day. Choose development and study over stability. Do not be afraid of the new, but taste new things. Don't resist change, but catch the new wave like a surfer. The one who does not change becomes a rudiment and dies. Whether in the trend. Move with life.

Who are you today? This is what you thought and did yesterday. Who will you be tomorrow? This is what you think and do today! Positive changes in life begin precisely with changes!

Concentrate on what's important to get where you want to be

Positive changes beckon us in the distance, but there will be many roads and temptations in life. They can distract from the true path, interfere with or test the strength of your intentions.

Concentrate on what is important, do not get distracted. According to the Pareto principle, "20% of the efforts give 80% of the result, and the remaining 80% of the efforts - only 20% of the result." Focus on what's important and don't let yourself be distracted from it.

Pay attention to goals and objectives. Do not splash your strength, interest and attention on extraneous things. Get rid of information noise, verbal rubbish, waste of energy, useless deeds and time killers.

Throw out fear, laziness, anticipation and insecurity

There are four horsemen of the Apocalypse: plague, war, hunger and death. But the modern four horsemen are fear, laziness, anticipation and uncertainty. Positive changes in life will appear when you get rid of your weaknesses.

• Fear. We are afraid of something all the time, so we avoid doing anything. What if it gets worse? What if it doesn't work? What if people around you laugh? It's always scary to step out of your comfort zone and into the area of change. But you can't do without it. You can never get rid of fear 100%, but you can move in spite of it. Move through fear.
• Laziness. We are all too lazy to do something useful when we can watch YouTube videos, surf social networks, stare at TV or lie on the couch. Laziness has ruined so many talented and promising people that you cannot count. But laziness does not exist. There are unloved activities, lack of strength and lack of ability to see future prospects.
• Uncertainty. Everyone around is smarter, stronger and happier, but not me. Nothing works for me, it doesn’t work, and I’m very bad. It is impossible to over-sing with such a mood in personal life, at work and in other places. Self-confidence is the key to positive change.
• Expectation. There will be better times, there will be a perfect moment, a good opportunity will turn up, or you will be 100% ready. We all love to wait for a miracle or put it off until tomorrow. But usually they wait until retirement, and then they are surprised that nothing in life has worked out. The saddest word in life is late. There is no ephemeral readiness for anything. There is like "it's time". It will help you decide at the right time.

Move and keep pace every day

Positive changes in life will not appear as a treasure or a miracle. You cannot find yourself, but you can create. There is nothing to look for in life, but there is something to achieve. Each person has their own path in life, but you will have to find your own path.

A dream is our goal in life, which is not very easy to achieve. There are two strategies in total, but both are victorious. You can get to your goal quickly if you move very intensely, swiftly and powerfully. The goal can be reached slowly, if regularly, persistently and purposefully.

Can't change everything or move towards your goal at maximum speed? There is not always the strength to change life dramatically quickly and effectively. It is difficult to change everything at once when there are big risks and a lot of responsibility. But every day you can make a difference for the better.

• Start exercising, eat healthier and get enough sleep.
• Reduce your addiction to social media, TV shows, computer games, alcohol, nicotine and laziness.
• Make time for your dreams, hobbies and passions.
• Make detailed plans for life, how you will proceed further.
• Start learning something new, grow professionally, take courses, learn foreign languages.
• Chat with like-minded people and those who are better than you.

Positive changes in life will come when you are not standing still. Move and keep pace every day. Not working fast? Move slowly but relentlessly and regularly.

“When you don’t want to go to work in the morning, and you don’t want to go home in the evening, you have to change your life.” Mikhail Weller

They say that fate and karma cannot be changed. But all this is nonsense. Life is like a book where your parents wrote the first chapters. The following pages were written more casually by those around them, friends, acquaintances, circumstances and will of chance.

We absorb views, thoughts, attitudes, points of view, desires and dreams through other people. Your lifestyle and behavior pattern is derived from the environment from the outside world. You are a self-learning program. But this is good news. You can change the program to whatever you like.

Positive life changes will not happen on their own. If you want to become different, you have to think and act differently. You can worry, scream, fight, whine or complain, but nothing will change until you change yourself. Only you can do it yourself.