2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
Very often people are indignant and complain about their lives: “They pay little, there are no prospects, and the work is complete nonsense. In his personal life, only quarrels and a lack of intimacy. A lot of problems, everything is bad and there is no future. " I perfectly understand your difficulties. But one thing I cannot understand. What are you doing? If you are not satisfied with the existing life, then why do you put up with it further?
"You never know what you are capable of if you get cold feet." Financial consultant, businessman, speaker Bodo Schaefer
Bad in a relationship and constantly endure? Disperse and find someone with whom it will be good. Hate jobs and low wages? Change your job or start learning another specialty. Are there no prospects in your city? You are not a tree that is rooted to the ground. Move to another city or country. Feeling bad? Take care of your health and get well. Hate your poor shape and body fat? Play sports and eat more balanced.
If something doesn’t suit you, then don’t whine or whine. Take action! But if you don't change anything, then you love to whine. You love self-pity. You want to be pitied, helped and decided everything for you.
You are in a zone convenient for you, comfort. You sit in your whining and pity zone. But this comfort is like a pile of dung. You may not like this comparison, but it is. Or should we feel sorry for you too?
The easiest way in life to complain, whine, be afraid and afraid. The easiest way is to "carry your cross" and "succumb to fate." But if you stop doing it, then what? Have to do something? Get up off your knees and get down to tasks, aiming for a dream?
Admit to yourself that you are where you want. If you are not satisfied with the existing reality, then change it. Or are you just afraid and endure out of habit?
Tired of enduring and being afraid of everything? Are you afraid to tell your parents that you want to enroll in another specialty? Afraid to quit your hated job? Are you afraid to get out of their unsuccessful relationship or find yourself a soul mate? Afraid to go to new places? Afraid of meeting people? Afraid to smile for no reason? Afraid to appear a little different from the rest? Afraid of getting a tattoo? Afraid to do something you want to do for a long time? Afraid to follow your dreams? Enough tolerating this.
We don't live the way we want. We are not doing what we dreamed of. We seem to be adults, but we are always afraid of something. We are afraid to do as we want. We are afraid to become a little bolder and take a step towards our goals.
We are afraid of being condemned and criticized if we live differently. We are afraid of offending other people, but we betray ourselves. We are always afraid and afraid of something. Aren't you tired of being afraid of everything and living not the way you dreamed?
It's time to live so that it would not be offensive for the years spent aimlessly. So that life is not wasted. Remember that this is your personal life, which is gradually ending. It's up to you to decide how it should look. But to be afraid or to endure is the last thing.
When you are 70-80 years old, what will you say to yourself in the mirror? Have I suffered? I was afraid? I wanted to, but was lazy? You will hate yourself at that time and despise your weakness. But you're younger now. You still have a chance to change everything.
Remember that the purpose of your life is completely different. You just have to live it the way you want it. But this is not all that is around you …