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2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
Life isn't working out the way it should? As if absolutely nothing depends on you, when there are no positive changes, and life goes according to the worst scenario. We are used to blaming our parents, bosses, colleagues, friends, enemies, government, crisis, horoscope or fatal bad luck for all our troubles. It's easier to blame someone from the outside than to admit that the real problem is in ourselves.
It happened. I was let down. It didn't depend on me. You can often hear such phrases from people who are never to blame for anything. There is always someone or something that got in the way. It's not their fault that something went wrong, and these people always have 1000 excuses. And one more spare.
It's easy to decide that everyone around you is to blame, but not you. Parents did not help, someone got in the way of a bad one, the situation in the world is complicated, the authorities did not appreciate it, a general pull or an unfortunate coincidence of circumstances. Nothing in life comes from what you want? Everything turns out in such a way that nothing is to blame, and is this all of them? Those. Other. Who are to blame for all your failures, troubles and problems.
It's time to admit to yourself that you are to blame for the situation and life around you.
How to learn to take responsibility for your life?
Take a completely different position than you are now. Not the position of the victim, on which nothing depends. Choose the position of a winner who takes the helm of life into your own hands. He who struggles with adversity, but achieves his goal, and does not whine, does not give up and does not look for the guilty.
Do you have a girl who takes out brains and doesn't appreciate you? It was you who chose her, and not only she is to blame for the fact that you have a bad relationship. Where were you when you chose your girlfriend and what did you think? You don't have a girlfriend and are you terribly lonely? Then why don't you get to know each other and don't actively look for her? Two approaches to strangers per month do not count. Although it is easier to assume that there are no normal girls left. Learn to take responsibility for your personal life into your own hands.
Do you have a bad job, where they pay little, the boss is an idiot and there are no prospects? Why are you sitting on it and not going to a new place of work? You can talk about a bad job and an unsuccessful situation on the labor market, or you can make an effort to somehow resolve this issue. Learn to take responsibility for your destiny into your own hands.
Have you been let down by people, betrayed or didn't do what you wanted? Why should they have done otherwise? We love to hope for someone else to get us out of shit or provide some help. But it should be borne in mind that other people are busy organizing their lives, not yours. They may not help, betray, or trip. The question is not why they are like that, but why are you so naive that you allow them to influence your life so much? Learn to take responsibility into your own hands.
Did something go wrong as you dreamed, wanted, or planned? Did something get in the way, did not have enough experience, luck, or were the circumstances unfortunate? It was you who were not ready enough, did not calculate all the options, were too arrogant, tried little, or made the wrong bet. It was you who let the plans fail, not someone else or something else. It's time to take responsibility for yourself into your own hands.
Nothing goes? Dreams Don't Come True? What do you do to make something happen? We are used to taking the passive position of the victim, not the position of the winner, who has everything in his hands. How much effort did you put in, how much did you try, how many times did you try, and how many times did you get up after falling? How many steps did you calculate and act wisely, and not on a break?
It's time to take 100% responsibility for your life. Nobody and nothing can change her but you. If something happened, then ask yourself why it happened that you found yourself in such a situation? What problems are there? What solutions are possible? What have you not thought about? How do others deal with similar problems? Where can you find the knowledge you need and the chances to tackle the challenges? You yourself are able to solve all the problems and win.
Take responsibility for your life into your own hands today. Then life will change …