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When you were 18, love was completely different. And you were different. Stupid and naive? No, just young. You felt differently about girls, treated relationships differently, loved and had sex differently.
Love before the age of 18 was completely different from what it is now. You grew up, preferences, priorities, plans, tastes and dreams changed. Now you have a completely different attitude to such a feeling as love. You have become an adult.
To love like an adult
Does the girl ignore you and ignore you? At 18, it was a challenge. The thirst for hunting was awakening. And now you pass by in silence. You do not have time for those who do not notice, who do not like or understand you. Those who do not call back, disappear and do not answer messages.
You are ready to secretly hopelessly love, sigh and suffer for the girl. But this is at 18 years old. Now you have no time for such Shakespearean suffering. You will not keep love in yourself, but you will let your chosen one understand your claims to her love and body. If "yes", then go ahead, and you will forget the refusal faster than her.
Girls are gorgeous when mysterious, impulsive, unpredictable, a little nutty and inadequate. When they behave is not clear how. When you need to solve this puzzle and the eternal mood swings. But this is only 18 years old. Now all these unbalanced persons are walking through the forest. Unhappy, suffering, self-seeking or running away from problems. With them you are not on the way.
When you are 18 years old, it was a heroic act to spend all the money on a gift for your darling. And then a month to interrupt without money, but to be happy. Now you understand that this is nonsense. A too expensive gift is the inability to manage your money. Money can't buy love.
At 18, you love to show off your success, prospects, money. When you grow up, you begin to hide everything to yourself. In order not to accidentally run into the mercantile, looking for an easy life.
At 18, life was wide open, now you are in no hurry to let strangers into your world. Only with some adaptation, you are ready to show your real self.
You will promise eternal love to each other at the age of 18. And then you will die one day. Now you are an adult and you understand all the stupidity of such statements. You are trying to be happy here and now, not thinking about the future. But love from this is no less.
The girls going against the whole world are the most fashionable and crazy anarchists. Trying to stand out from the crowd, despising the foundations and breaking the rules. Such people drove them crazy at 18. Now they are alarming, who could not fit into this world and put a spoke in the wheels of others.
Cynical, elusive and cocky girls were a dream at 18. Those who smoked without measure, drank and indulged in madness. And now they are sick of them. I want relatives, friends and fluffy. So that without pretzels and everything is simple.
Cheating girls have been painful for years at 18. And now, with the bang of the door, you stop even thinking about past relationships and those who are not worthy of it.
At 18, you want as many different girls and sex as possible. But as you grow up, you start to feel sick from short-term romance and sex for one night. I want sex with kisses and love.
Glamorous and insatiable chicks forced you to chase the dough and after them. Tireless golden chicks wanted a high level of income, and you were ready to break into a cake for this at the age of 18. Now these show-offs and the desire to match the world of glamor are straining.
Offended, scandalous, throwing, throwing tantrums and depriving girlfriends of sex for little things. At the age of 18, you had to look for methods of consolation and beg forgiveness. And now you silently retire in search of a more adequate girl.
You were omnivorous when you were young. You could have sex and even date different dumb chicks. Now you value yourself much higher. Low-class girls are not interesting. You choose your girlfriend no worse, or maybe even better, than you.
Love at the age of 18 was madness, madness of emotions, impressions and sensations. But with this, nothing has changed. Love is still knocking down, stirring up the mind and body.
“To love like an adult, love like an adult, love like an adult” - you repeat to yourself and ask not to waste time in vain. Move forward, self-improve, conquer dreams. Find a girlfriend with similar dreams and walk together along the same tropic to meet the dawns. Are you ready to love like an adult? Or are you 18 yet? How has your love changed over time?