2023 Author: Katelyn Chandter | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:08
Everyone has moments in life when it takes will and courage to survive. I don’t know where this passion comes from feeling sorry for myself and reveling in my misfortune. Moreover, a misfortune that can be easily removed?
As I get older, I become irritable. And I began to notice how much whiner annoyed me. As well as their number. It seems to me that in our country there are somehow too many of them. The two categories are nerdy whiners and aggressive whiners. Some just moan and tell everyone about their hard life. At the same time, an important detail is always missing in their cry - it is not clear what they are doing in order to rectify the situation. Paradoxically, they suffer, but they do not want to change anything. Although it would seem, why whine - solve the problem. In response, another stream of whining. But the problem is not solved by whining, it's obvious. You start flipping through the news feed on Vkontakte: everyone likes pictures about how they hate Monday. But the fool understands that they hate not the day of the week, but their work. They hate, but they don't quit. There is always a radical way to solve a problem - cut off the corn that poisons your life. No, it's scary! I'd better dump the whining streams on those around me.
Aggressive whiners are always unhappy with everything. Government, weather, wife, neighbors. But discontent is just a mask. Behind this lies all the same ordinary whining. The country is bad, the roads are terrible, the chief is an asshole. A kind of bilious pessimistic whiners. They blog. They are constantly outraged by something to the depths of their souls. They constantly think that everyone owes them, that the world revolves around their bright person. They are unhappy with doctors who did not have shoe covers, they are unhappy with police officers who did not respond quickly enough to their call, unhappy with the fact that someone in the world may have other interests. In short, there are really a lot of whiners - both on the Internet and in everyday life.
And I keep asking myself the question - where do people get so much time for whining? If a person has a business, he has no time to whine. And today I seem to understand what is the cause of all the country's problems. That there are too many whiners in her. People who are unable to take responsibility even for their own destiny, let alone other people. A whiner-official will complain about objective difficulties and lack of money, a whiner-policeman - about a large amount of work, a whiner-doctor for stupid patients, a whiner-janitor for pigs-passers-by. This type of people is not able to perceive the world around them as an objective reality. They have long convinced themselves that nothing depends on them. All that remains is to whine. There is always a reason for sweet snot. They are unable to make a decision, despite the fact that it is obvious.
I don’t know where this passion comes from feeling sorry for myself and reveling in my misfortune. Moreover, it is a misfortune that can be easily eliminated. When a person says that he cannot find a job, I do not believe him. He cannot find a job that would be worthy of him. Janitors, excavators and orderlies are always needed. But a person cannot find a job. Weird. I have long been convinced that everyone is the blacksmith of his own misfortune. It is enough to look back and you can see a chain of laziness, irresponsibility, slovenliness, promiscuity, which led to a specific problem. But no one wants to change themselves, everyone expects the world to suddenly change. Or at least regret it. It is stupid to expect that everything will somehow work out and settle down by itself. Expecting the world to shake under the whine is idiocy.
Everyone has moments in life when it takes will and courage to survive. But no one’s life consists entirely of these moments. One thing is enough - not to whine, but to solve the problem. In most cases, this will take a little time. But even if it takes 14 years, like the Count of Monte Cristo, it's still better than devoting your life to dull whining.