You can buy her a car, a fur coat, diamonds, but the relationship will develop into pure consumerism. What are the long heart-to-heart talks about? Two things that are important to every woman.
1. Sex. Yes - yes, women talk and think about it more often than you think. They also apply with their hands and improvised means, in case of "his" absence, watch porn films and read the relevant literature. Women have always wanted and want a lot of sex, there is only one BUT - variety. No, this is not a change of positions and places - a table, a chair, a window sill, a wardrobe, a chandelier. This is a change of "his" temperament - gentle, hard, long, fast, silently or whispering tenderness (and often vulgarity) in the ear. It often happens that a girl (wife, girlfriend, lover, etc.) at the beginning, were ardent in bed, but after a while they turned into a "log". So - the "log" wants sex, but she lacks a variety of feelings.
One friend of mine lived for seven years in marriage, once she said that she knew by the minute the position that her husband would take at one time or another, its duration, and so on. As a result, she went for this in lesbian. She did not part with her husband, but received from the outside those emotions that she lacked.
At the beginning of a relationship, many girls rely on his behavior in bed when choosing a companion (among my friends, single girls, most of them gave first place for a partner who will suit her the most in sex. According to them, no matter what problems we have, everything can be solved, but sex is either good or not). If a girl is not satisfied in bed, she becomes irritable, angry, a log, a grumbling granny, a prude. You can buy her a car, a fur coat, diamonds, but the attitude will develop into pure consumerism. She will portray pleasure at any hour of the day or night, and for this she will receive a valuable reward. However, in her thoughts a woman will dream of a simple guy with whom she will feel loved and desired in bed. This applies both to girls in relation to, and to wives with whom you have lived for more than one year.
Another friend of mine, met a good guy and soon got pregnant, gave birth, they signed and he quit his job, for a year and a half they lived on her parents' money, until she became pregnant with the second, he got a job, she gave birth, he quit) - this is example, poor support.
Summing up the intermediate result, women (of course, if they do not dream of a fairy-tale prince, but have outgrown this period) are not as demanding and difficult as men, they all went through their crises in life, on which this left a strong imprint. And only mutual respect and participation in the life of a partner can achieve harmony and happiness, whatever it may be.
