If you are young enough, then read these simple rules and tips. Correct attitude towards life, worthy landmarks, integrity of upbringing and strong character.
… Hey kid, I'll tell you something, and you just do it and that's it.
Never, hey, never borrow. Just put yourself on this setup. If you are missing something, just give it up. Believe me, you can live your life and never borrow. But if you think that now there is no other choice, it is better to take a loan than borrow from friends. It is better to lose the trust of a bank than a friend. If you still took a loan, give it back. If you do not pay back your debts, you will never be a man - but you will be a bitch. Also try not to lend yourself. If your real friend asks you, he will understand if you refuse and find somewhere else to borrow and this will not spoil your relationship, but it will save you from losing a friend.
Very soon you will have your first relationship with girls., right now, you will find your first and only, as it seems to you, queen, with whom you will have to live your whole life. Prepare that this will not happen. First love is incredibly painful, in youth this feeling is incredibly strong. You will most likely witness how your peers will jump down only to prove their love and attract attention to themselves. Remember, no one gives a shit. And on you and on your feelings. If suddenly you are unlucky and your chosen one turns out to be not very picky in relationships, it will be incredibly difficult for you to survive, but remember that the main thing for you is study. You can't even imagine how much this relationship of yours is insignificant in comparison with the fucked up study.
Very soon you will have sex life., then it will seem to you that this is incredible, hard-to-reach "resource" and you will try to get it at any cost, especially for the blue traffic. Why am I … ah yes. Don't you dare, asshole! Don't you dare buy cheap condoms like "Hussar Spear" or "Midnight in Biryulyovo". They can throw you as many problems as you don’t need at all.
Very soon you will need to take a license, it is too early to prepare for this, but keep in mind, get ready to immediately pass the "B, C" categories. At first, you probably won't ride trucks, but believe me, in life there may be such a situation when your family will not have any money at all. And then you can easily go to earn some money as a driver (unless, of course, this is your choice from the very beginning). And the driver with cat C gets much more than the driver with cat. V.
Army, kid. It's almost inevitable. If you fail to enroll in a good university (and in a bad one it is better not to do, do not waste your time, no one will ever look at this crust because it has no price at all, only the authority of the university and work experience has a price) - it’s not ssy to go to the army. The most important thing that she gives is friends for life. There you will understand what responsibility is, you will understand how to make a person do what he is, like a fountain, and wants to do.
Learn Russian language. Remember, there is no greater shame than not being able to write and express yourself in your native language. Read more. Don't like huge 1.5 kg novels? Read news on the Internet, magazines, free newspapers on the subway. Learn to receive information not from videos and pictures, but from text. There is no easier way to become literate than simple reading.
Learn to do everything yourself. Has a faucet broken in the kitchen? Don't wait for Dad to fix it or your mother to call the plumber. Offer to do it yourself. Read in the net that how, that the key is needed for 8-10 to unscrew the whistles, that you need a special thread for sealing, that it is advisable to shut off the water in front. Understand, now the man is shallow, does a pedicure, knows the phone number of the service "husband for an hour" and shaves his back. But remember, women love not like that. If your woman ever asks you to change the outlet, assemble and install a completely new kitchen, etc. you have no fucking right to say, “I don’t know how,” even if you don’t really shit about it. Learn to do something new constantly. Look at any thing, be it a car, a washing machine or your daughter's origami, and say to yourself: "This thing was made by a man, am I really dumber than him and can't figure it out?" Start the set from childhood, and then by the time you reach adulthood, you will not be ashamed to enjoy the aroma of melting rosin when you repair your iron.
Respect your parents. I understand that your father is too strict with you and your mother constantly demands something. But you are unlikely to have people in your life who are ready to give their lives for you. Understand that they wiped your ass until you were 4 years old. Mother, when your temperature of 36.9 was already starting to panic, the pi * duke took care of you and guarded you for 25 hours a day, did not sleep at night. When you tell your mother that you do not owe them anything and you yourself know how and what, remember, you owe everything to her. I'm not saying that you need to fulfill every whim of your parents at the moment when you have already formed your own vision, but don't you dare ignore them. They are very painful and unpleasant when you ask them to stay behind and not to meddle in your life. For them, you will always be a tiny pissed-off miracle. You will understand all this when you become a father, but it so happens that it is too late.
I will subscribe under every word.
On my own I would add, perhaps, do not hesitate to have children.
"Then it will be too late.