Do you want to be successful and happy? Sluts and slobs have traits in common that put them on a slippery slope of failure. How to prevent, diagnose, and treat slobber syndrome?
I have extensive experience of dealing with all sorts of gouges and fighting the unconditional evil of gouging within myself. An unorganized person can get to any level in the social hierarchy, up to the highest, but this usually ends very badly. The bulk of slobs, however, live in an unknown place and do not know what income and are actively joining the ranks of strange people who claim that the average salary in Russia cannot be higher than 10 thousand.
Kinks have common traits that put them on a slippery slope. I think it is worth sharing them in order to avoid infection of the broad masses with the Ridobaysky disease.
1. The habit of being late and forgetting about appointments or tasks. A self-evident quality for a gouging. The problem is solved if there are no tangled mental problems, scrupulous control and accounting. I should explain to myself that the tasks set are very important and each time carefully point by point to disassemble the upcoming solution of the problem for myself, to provide for possible pitfalls. For example, before going to a meeting, you need to study the route and set the time taking into account traffic jams and other problems.
2. A sense of stability, confidence in the normalcy of sloppy behavior. Often a person basically does not understand why he is not appreciated. Such people often repeat the ideas about “everything is bought”, “it is unrealistic to earn honestly,” “all around the blat”, etc. The problem is solved by suggestion, which is severe enough for realizing we will gouge the problem.
The problem is solved if you break down a lot of work into completely feasible doses that you can do every day. The habit of working on a task at least a little bit can very well become something like a habit of brushing your teeth. In addition, once you start working, it is easy to get involved. The principle of "not a day without a line" was not accidentally invented by artists, it is ideal for all kinds of creative personalities, that is, gouging.
4. The habit of thinking that gouging ideas and work is much better works of pathetic people, because they are especially bright and creative. Such an opinion is not necessary for razdobayev, but it is very popular among them. The problem is that any work is valuable only when it reaches its goal. Therefore, sad as it may seem, it is necessary to take into account, first of all, the wishes of the client or the real possibilities for the implementation of the project. In addition, the implementation of good ideas usually requires a lot of work, and sometimes even making adjustments to the concept itself.
Kicks of fate, alas, do not solve the problem. However, the manner of thinking over the ways of implementing a megaproject and even sometimes starting it is invaluable.
5. Lack of self-confidence. Often combined with confidence in your own genius. The problem is being solved by consistent work on PSV and self-esteem, with the aim of lowering the first and increasing the second.
