If a woman thinks that giving birth, leading a life and not changing are unique qualities, then she is a fool. People confuse the concepts of "good wife", "good mother", "good woman", "good housewife" and "good lover".
When a man leaves a good wife, this always puts on him the stigma of a traitor.
A good wife, washing her face with tears of hysteria, wonders: “How could you do this to me, you scoundrel ?! Am I walking? Cheating on you? Saw? Lived for your pleasure? Yes, I’m all my life for the sake of the family! I am a good wife! Good mother! Traitor!"
The children are perplexed: “Why are you doing this with your mother, father? She's the best here”. Friends of the family are perplexed: “Here he is a fool. I contacted this one. Julia is such a good woman."
Why is there a wife, friends, children. The man himself, sprinkling ashes on his head, wonders: “How can I betray Yulka, eh? She's so good."
This is the "good" logical mistake that the whole environment of the man makes. And he himself.
People often confuse the concepts of "good wife", "good mother", "good woman", "good housewife" and "good lover". For many, a good wife is a good mother, a good woman, a good housewife and a good lover all rolled into one.
In fact, a good wife is much more than all of the above. More precisely, this is something completely different.
You may not be a good mother, a good housewife, a good lover, or even a good person, but you may still be a good wife.
What is a good wife?
A good wife is the one who shares with you all the hardships of your being. Not your own being, not your common being, that is, being together, but your personal being, which has nothing to do with her as a mother, mistress and mistress.
You can talk about your hardships, or you can keep them to yourself, but if you have a good wife, then you go through life with the feeling that your rear is covered.
They are covered not so much with lunch and a blow job, which every second person is capable of performing with a bang today, but with the presence of a reliable partner in your life.
A reliable partner is someone who will not only listen to you, understand and support you with a word, but also help you with action.
Reliability is not limited to actions that you do not perform: did not change, did not walk, did not drink. Reliability is not limited to actions that are available 9 out of 10: children and husband are fed and well-groomed, but to be debugged. Reliability is your unique actions that ease the hardships of being your partner.
To perform such actions, you need to feel very well who is nearby and want to help him. However, just feeling and wanting to help is not enough.
It is important to be able to help. Be able to help. Be able to help.
Opportunities, as a rule, have those who have taken off high. The higher a person has taken off, the greater his opportunities.
One of my friends - a serious businessman - had a family broken up when he fell for big money. He was losing his capital, and his wife could not help him with anything except lunch and a blowjob. And eating and fucking is the last thing a businessman on the brink of bankruptcy wanted.
When my friend realized that the only person close to him in a critical situation was impotent and even ballast, he immediately stopped feeling like a traitor and threw off the ballast.
I asked him:
- How can you do that, huh? Julia is such a good woman, your rear, your support.
- What kind of support is she, Len? What can she do, besides borscht? And that one - from a golden pan.
“But she cooked you borscht when you didn't have gold pans. She began to cook it in a rusty saucepan.
- Any woman can cook borscht even in a golden saucepan, even in a rusty one. This is not a unique skill. I don't want to spend my life with a woman who is one of. I don't need a woman like everyone else. I need a unique woman.
And he left, having scored on the general: “How could you? Julia is such a good woman."
Now next to him is not just a good woman, which every first pancake has, but a real champion and personality with a capital letter. And now she, if something happens, will not put a plate of borscht on the table, but the whole world with cancer and will solve the problem.
To the question of why a man is needed who has to help in solving problems, I will answer as follows.
This, of course, is a very comfortable position - to go through life with the attitude: "I am a girl and do not owe anything to anyone." If you take this position, you are not alone or unique. So do not be offended when you - so non-unique - are merged somewhere in the middle of your life.
You have every right not to be unique. As well as he has every right to see a unique woman next to him or as non-unique as you, but younger, more cheerful and with elastic tits.
If you think that giving birth, leading a life and not changing are unique qualities, which are enough not to drain you, you are a fool.
If your man is not a complete outsider, a line of women will line up for him, eager to give birth to children, to lead his life and at the same time not to change. They will also please in bed with a twinkle that you have been lazy for a long time.
Bunnies, what gives you reason to consider yourself good wives? Guys, on what basis do you think your wives are good?