You met a girl and you liked her. How to care for and what to feed? At the initial stage, you will have to strain a lot if you want results.
So you met a girl. On the subway, on the bus, in a museum, at a lecture, at work, at school, in a toilet, in a manhole - it doesn't matter. You liked her, you want to continue communicating with her. What to do?
Remember that in the initial (first week) stage, you will have to strain a lot if you want results. The relationship will be more like a salesperson in a car dealership. You will need to please the client, and you need a plan in your head, a second plan in case of failure of the first, third, fourth and fifth. Exaggerating, two will be enough. But nevertheless, the first week is WORK, not relaxation.
There are 3 things you need to know. Relationship with a person consists of:
Of general reality
The amount of communication
The degree of attraction to that person. (Friendship is also a degree of attraction)
By raising one component, you are raising all the others. How to apply it? Pretty simple.
Ask the girl about her interests. Music, hobbies, hobbies, work, study, views on life.
Let's say a girl is fond of bikes at a fairly serious level. And we know nothing about the greats. We stock up on two or three hours of free time and climb to Google for a start. We google "types of bicycles", read, learn about mountain bikes, downhill, freeride and other things and terms. When you realize that you are already quite savvy compared to ordinary people, you can use the following trick:
Returning to this topic in a conversation with a girl, you can say the following: “Actually, I don’t skate myself, but I really like watching downhill competitions, I like how Mark Beaumont skates (google“downhill winner”, open the first news) and someday, I will get together, save up and also try myself in this matter."
Everything. After this phrase, you are already type in the topic, but you do not have to know much. Then you can ask the girl to tell you more about this case. You are guaranteed a conversation for one meeting.
The same can be done with any interest, be it violin, go go, poker, economics, whatever.
1. Shave off these antennae, they do not paint you at all.
2. Shave your armpits, if you are in a T-shirt and a girl accidentally sees a hairline - there is a great chance that she will not like it. Although, there are also bush lovers. But less often.
3. The teeth can be brushed more thoroughly before the meeting.
4. Iron things one more time, clean the sneakers.
5. Buy a cologne, splash before going out. Good thing.
6. Wash your hair more often.
7. Wash your face regularly, you can just plain water, this will reduce the number of acne. You need to wash every hour if you have an active period.
Stock up on chocolates, marmalade, nuts at worst. It is very effective, when you sit down somewhere, get out such a "hamster-package" and offer it to the girl. It also brings you closer when you get gummies from one bag.
Don't be afraid to sound funny. Here, of course, you can't guess for sure, but most girls like it when you can laugh not only at her fails, but also at yours. You can once again depict a fall on ice in winter, you can get dirty with ice cream, in moderation, of course. By the way, this is a sign: if a girl smiles kindly and helps you to get up or to wipe off, she is quite adequate. If there is no help, then there may be something wrong with her.
However, you need to look single-minded. You have a goal for the next 5 years, you are moving towards it. Slow or fast - it doesn't matter, the main thing is that it is there.
Calculate your budget. Especially if you are a poor student. With a friend, you can go to McDonald's and tell him "you know, I only have 200 rubles today, so let's eat 100 rubles each." You won't tell a girl that. Therefore, choosing walking paths, if you are broke, think over where, how and what you will eat. At the extreme, you can say that you forgot your card with money at home, but this will only work once, and it is better to leave it for an emergency. Certainly not for the first time.