Finding a girlfriend in China is not so easy, because the mentality of Chinese women is strikingly different. Instructions for dealing with the fair sex from China.
Not for nothing did Comrade Sukhov say that the East is a delicate matter. This is especially true for women. And the conversation will not even go about the inhabitants of Muslim countries, but about our neighbors - Chinese women. It is not so easy for a Russian guy who came there to work to find a worthy companion: you need to draw up a real instruction on how to deal with the fair sex, because their mentality is strikingly different.
China's first and foremost problem is Chinese women. Or rather, not even they, but their absence.
I explain. All because of the shaitan apparatus called ultrasound. The Chinese do not want to have a girl child. DO NOT WANT, and that's it. Doctors, under threat of license revocation, are FORBIDDEN to disclose the sex of the child to the parents-to-be, but they still do. Today, if you add 2 + 2 elementary, there will be 200 million Chinese men left without a pair. This is more than the entire population of Russia. Therefore, if there is already a Chinese girl in the world and she is pretty, she quickly turns into … But more on that later.
The girl cannot help her father in his work. The girl will go to another family. For girls, only expenses - these are the usual arguments of the Chinese. But if the stars have formed in such a way that the girl was still born, a lot of temptations immediately fall on her. Here you have to understand that "right away" is about 17-18 years old. There was recently a map of the beginning of sexual activity in the world, in China it is 22-23 years. With this, in principle, you can not argue. When a girl graduates from school, if she is cute enough, then in her head she has only cartoons and posting new photos on QQ and Weibo. I am not kidding. 23-25 year old "girls" watch Xiyangyang (by the way, a cool cartoon xD) and take pictures in the form of TP.
You can just experiment - collect group photos from Chinese universities and photos from local nightclubs. If in the club beautiful girls are the norm, then within the university they are rather an exception. In this regard, the first dilemma. Look for a life friend, reliable and loyal, but not so hot, or throw a lot of money at club girls. A strange regularity noticed - club girls always spun me up for money.
And more, and more. What's funny is that if you give them money, they don't even have enough imagination to have fun. They are only enough to go shopping during the day, and in the evening to drink all sorts of rubbish in the club and stick to the phone. TELEPHONE!!!! This is the second national evil.
In general, they are Chinese, like little children - they succumb to temptation very easily (perhaps that is why the only system in which they develop is a totalitarian one with rigid frameworks). Everyone remembers the Opium Wars, the Chinese have always easily addicted to drugs, let everyone go into gambling. Children, in a word. And then mobile phones came along. No, I have three of them myself (I work in a company that deals with applications for mobile phones), I actively buy new products for myself, play games. But this is NOTHING compared to how much time the Chinese spend on their phones. I woke up - into the phone. A date with a girl - both are sitting and buried in their phones. A company came to a karaoke birthday party - one sings, and ten others are stuck in the phone. It's the same with girls. If you have invited a Chinese woman on a date, and she constantly looks at the phone and sometimes answers inappropriately - do not worry, she is very good with you … Pay attention to the hairstyle. A short-haired girl most often recently broke up with a boyfriend.
Feed them our food. First, they are thrilled that there are men who cook. Secondly, they are thrilled that there are men who do not consider them to be a lower being. And most importantly, to bleat, most importantly (it's far from the end), feed them with salad! Either they have vitamin deficiency, or something else, but an ordinary Greek salad is the way to the heart of a Chinese woman. Tried repeatedly, works 100%. Oh yes, and don't forget the sandwiches …
Let's go back to the missing places. Nobody says good girls don't go to bars and clubs. They go there. But they come there with their own company, leave with their own company and are usually not disposed to meet. Another important fact is that the average Chinese thinks a woman is a thing. If in any Europe and America you will not surprise anyone with a woman-chancellor and secretary of state, in China this is nonsense. The role of a woman is to manage the household and look after the children. This is projected onto the relationship as well. The Chinese buy their girls (most often). Once I beat off a girl from a Chinese man (like taking away a candy from a child, honestly … You just have to say a couple of compliments and feed him a salad. Haha). His arguments, when we beat each other and sat down to smoke - "Why did she choose you, I buy everything she wants." There are a lot of such examples.
The same goes for sex. In bed, the club Chinese woman is like a soldier of the Prussian army - she is uninitiated and obeys commands. And since contacts with club girls rarely last more than a couple of days, it is impossible to teach anything. It is quite another matter to meet an inexperienced student, and, by rotating all kinds of knobs and tongs, set up an ideal car. Then it will be rewarded to you a hundredfold.
The logical question is how to get to know them. As in the spirit - I have no idea. For all the time here I was the first to approach the girl even once. When you see a girl who interests you, take the pose "Pythagoras reflecting on Archimedes, who reflects on Diogenes" and look into the distance with importance. It works for me with a 90% probability. Do not offend them - they are like children …
And most importantly, do not wear the hat of the Chinese peasants on them. From this they go berserk.
