Young girls do not know how to conduct a productive dialogue, admit their guilt, if any, and get out of the conflict. The guys try to resolve the conflict by talking, but they get a bang on the door and the girl's back.
Yesterday at the gas station I witnessed an interesting scene. While the guy was refueling the car, a girl was beating inside it, shouting curses.
Barely opening the door, the guy received a burst of machine-gun attacks and insults from the girl. He tried to hold her hands, but she pulled free and proudly walked into the distance. The guy with the look of a beaten dog quietly followed her, persuading her not to be a fool.
In the evening of the same day, I met another couple on the street. As in the case at the gas station, the guy urged the girl to calm down, and she yelled: "Andrey, don't touch me!"
The guy at the same time did not think to touch her. Only when she was trying to leave, he stopped her by the hand.
We have all observed such situations. They are typical. People have a conflict that cannot be resolved otherwise than by talking. A man always wants to talk, and a girl who, by the way, is often wrong, sees a threat in dialogue.
Want a scary story? The same conflict began with one couple on the road. Outside the window - minus thirty, tens of kilometers to the nearest city. The girl, pressed by the guy's arguments, decided to get out of the car.
To the guy's suggestion to drive safely to the house and continue the showdown there, the girl responded with hysteria and an attempt to open the door at a speed of over a hundred. He had to stop the car, and while he hesitated, the girl jumped out and ran proudly into the distance. The guy, as was customary in their relationship, followed her and was hit by a passing car.
Now, many years later, this woman admits that in that quarrel, as in many previous ones, she was wrong, but did not want to plead guilty. The difference from the previous quarrel is that it was the last one. It's too late to fix anything.
Another story ended not so badly - in divorce. The young wife announced to her mother that her husband was beating her. In fact, it turned out that he simply held her hands when she also tried to escape from the conversation that had begun. Offended that they dared to hold her by the hands, she complained to her parents. They wound it up, and it's good that the guy was not jailed. Fortunately, no traces of the "beating" were found.
Now the "beaten" girl cuckoo old maid under fifty and recalls how she flushed the family down the toilet out of her own stupidity.
There are more than enough such stories. Young girls do not know how to conduct a productive dialogue, admit their guilt, if any, and get out of the conflict. Guys, on the other hand, try to resolve the conflict by talking, but they get a bang on the door and the back of a girl who goes into the distance, nowhere, to her mother.
And why? Girls are raised as princesses. "Doesn't owe anything to anyone except to be happy." Strange logic, despite the fact that everyone knows how short the old age is.
Have you been in similar situations? What did they lead to?
