And victimized people annoy me, people with victim behavior. It is their phones that are squeezed out, it is they who are chosen among the crowd by the energy vampires. Finally, become more confident in yourself!
Perhaps this will sound strange - I myself was surprised when I realized that I was annoying lately.
And victimized people annoy me, people with victim behavior. It is they who are squeezing their phones, it is them who are chosen among the crowd by the energy vampires … In general, it is for them that life is much more difficult and painful than for those around them.
It's not about what they are wearing. A victim girl in jeans and a sweatshirt will be raped with a much greater chance than a non-victim girl in a miniskirt and with boobs jumping out of her cleavage.
It's about behavior. It's about insecurity.
Not a single person is immune from this - I myself got into unpleasant situations during a period of vulnerability. I have told my friends a story more than once, when I was attacked only once on the street in order to profit from my wallet and phone. It was late evening, and I was walking with a hookah - in my backpack there was a big beautiful flask and all the pipes, in the bag in my hand there was a barbell. I was very worried about breaking this flask. Apparently, it was this excitement that the gopniks took for victimization - and they were very disappointed when they saw a massive barbell in my hands, and in my eyes - a readiness to defend myself. I didn’t even have to beat any of them - they quickly combed them out themselves.
My 11th grade tutor tried to kiss and molest me. Then I got out, but then for at least a month I was molested by inadequate people in transport and on the street. The young man gave me a shocker, which I never parted with. The mere presence of a shocker in my bag (although I realized that I was unlikely to have time to use it, if something happened), it seemed, drove all these inadequacies away from me. They did not know about the shocker, but subconsciously understood that I should not be touched. The shocker has long been abandoned, but still nobody touches me.
Probably, the presence of victimized people in this world greatly helps the rest - after all, it is on the victim that many and many problems fall, from which, thanks to them, the rest are spared. But how sorry they are!
Girls boys, finally get your confidence into a fist. Buy yourself a shocker or pepper spray and trust that you can use it with ease. Then, most likely, you won't have to. Get a trauma or a big stern friend who is ready to come to your aid at any time. Learn to run fast or take self-defense courses.
Finally, become more confident in yourself! Maybe then the price of the taken away phone for gopniks will be too high to risk. But the main thing is that you will be safe.