Getting yourself a girlfriend is one thing. Getting a woman is usually not that difficult, but keeping a woman is another matter entirely. You cannot afford to be lazy in a relationship.
Getting a woman is one thing. It's easy to get a woman. Holding is another matter entirely. This is where the hard work begins. My beliefs make them ask for more. You guys can't afford to be lazy in a relationship. You must constantly maintain these beliefs. And getting to my level of self-confidence will take a lot of hard work, understand that. Start small and grow. You will be there soon.
When I started out, I loved big boobs. I was the Boob Man. Then I became Ass Man. Then I started looking first at the crotch. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What you like about a woman I may not like. It largely depends on your mood. When you are in a good, joyful mood, you may like a pretty face. When you're in a bad mood, you can look for a nice big ass to fuck. In my life there was a period when I lived only in orgies and group sex. I just couldn't fuck one girl anymore. It's boring!
I don't run after women. I do not beg or try to please them. Guys often worry if they look good. My approach: “Hey, my dick is better than his! Try both and you will see. " Guys, leave women worrying about their looks. They are masters at this. Appearance doesn't mean anything. It is important how you make the woman feel. And they need a strong man. They want a man, not a piece of cunt, preoccupied with their appearance.
Only lesbians don't need men. They want pussies, they want male friends, gay men, who won't touch them. Lesbians want the guy to say, “Yes honey. Anything you want, dear. " So that all together they were chicks. They don't need a man. They need someone they can control.
So these curses want to lead you by the nose, and when they start leading you, when they start deciding where and when, you will have problems, because that is not her role. If you give the woman all the power in a relationship, if you give her the steering wheel, you will crash.
Guys always ask me, "How do you get them back after a breakup?" Elementary! Most of you think women are difficult, but they are not. Let me give you a couple of examples to make it clear how easy it is. I once consulted a guy, and he had a habit of complicating things. When we were talking, I got a call from a woman I knew well. A minute later, I put my phone down and continued the meeting. She chatted incessantly about something.
And every couple of minutes I would take the phone and say “Mmm… Uh-huh. Aha”and put it down again. Fifteen minutes later I took the phone and said what I had done, I said how I put the phone down and ignored it during this whole time. She never believed it. Women never believe what you tell them. I don't know why, but it's true.
If you want to get the girl back, try saying “It doesn't matter how many women I've been with, no matter how many I've seen, I always see your face instead of theirs. I want to see you again. " And that's it! Just say it and it's yours. Of course, if you were a real asshole with her, treated her like shit, beat her and acted like a woman, if she caught you in bed with a man, then you probably need to be on the Jerry Springer Show. In other cases, everything is simple.
Being romantic doesn't mean being weak. When you got it, the romance will keep it. You must be her fantasy, a knight in shining armor. It takes work. Another way to get her back is to send her home one rose, no name, no card. Wait a week and let's go one more. This time with a card without a name, which says "When I see these flowers, I think of you, and I must send you one." Then you send the third one. Write on the card “No matter how many women I see, I only see your face. Call me. 555-9087 ". She will call because women love to hear "I think of you."
If you want a woman to trust you, it's easy. If you want her to fall in love with you, it's easy. Just tell her not to. Women never believe what she is told. When I talk about honesty, trust and respect, I might say something like, “But I don’t want you to trust me yet. Trust must be earned. When you feel that you can trust me, you will let me know. " Once you tell her that you don't want her to trust you, she will.
Guys keep asking me "how to get a woman to swallow"? Too easy. One of the options for a test: to tell her that no woman with her mouth could make me cum. Tell her that many have tried, but none have succeeded. Say something like this to her and she will accept the challenge. Then, when you're done, say “Wow! You are awesome! Nobody ever succeeded! " Because if you tell a woman that you can’t cum during a blow job, something inside her will say “Oh well ?!” They like the challenge.
There are plenty of them for us. Women are everywhere! Buses, bookstores, planes, trains - everywhere! But you must drive. You say "Jump!" and she replies, "How high?"
I'm a gentleman, but I'm also a macho who grew up in the 70s and 80s. I'm a man and she does what I want. If she doesn't like it, there are others outside. In my house there is a dictatorship, not a democracy. It's the same with my employees. My employees do not have a say in my business. Why? Because I want that kind of life. I know where I am going; I know what I want for myself.
Bringing back exes is easy, but I don't like it. If you want to return it, I will tell you how, and if you literally follow my advice, you will return it.
But most of you are better off just letting her go and moving forward, because when you bring her back, you will suddenly remember why you broke up the first time. I believe that the main reason men want to move forward has to do with pride. Men have always been too proud, so listen further. Life is a series of mistakes, and the sooner you learn from them and move on …
I was the first of all my friends to have their own home. Life was too good in those days. I came home from work and there were already 3-4 girls. I came in and asked: "Who wants?" I fucked them before I got into the shower. Then one or two of my friends came and I asked: "Who wants to fuck with this friend, and who with this?" All my friends had sex in my apartment. Ahhh … what a time it was!
As a value, men are not interested in statistics. The need for men is greater than for women. They make us think that the opposite is true, but it is not! But we are stupid, we think with our heads.
Don't be afraid to ask for what you want. I like women who can cook and I ask them if they can cook. Make her cook you a couple of dishes to be sure. I also need to know how they live. Who is her roommate? Does she keep the house clean? I also need to talk to her girlfriends, which is very important if you want to do business with her.
You are who your friends are. If she has a lot of single girlfriends, you're in trouble. You're fucked up because her single girlfriends will sabotage your relationship because they want her to stay single.
No, I do not want you to be me, I want you to be me. Start by being honest with yourself.
They don't need an easily accessible guy. We want an easily accessible woman, and they don't. If you wander around, mumbling "Me too", you will lose them. They need a strong guy who gives them a sense of security. Physical strength doesn't matter. You must be strong in spirit and know what you want in life. You have to be decisive.
I am a dictator in my own life and my relationships. You can't rely on a woman to take care of you. She wants you to be strong and in charge. Not every woman wants to go where you go. But you mustn't bend under it. You should know what you want from life, and not be afraid to get it. Women find it attractive. Honor Cosmopolitan.
The first thing women will say about fading relationships is "we don't communicate anymore." So from the very beginning of the relationship, establish that you need a woman who knows how to communicate. This will not only attract her, but also give you a significant bonus afterwards.
Guys keep asking me how to deal with a girlfriend who's flirting with other guys. They usually tell her to stop. This rarely works because she will think you are insecure. If your girlfriend is flirting with other men, you should film women. If she hunts, you hunt too. If she complains, fuck her. Tell her that if she wants to flirt, you will flirt too. I even went so far as to leave with another woman right under her nose. Why not? This is a smart move.
Years ago, I was driving a topless car with a woman, and all the truckers were staring at her because she was not wearing a T-shirt. She exposed her breasts to everyone's amusement. We stopped at a gas station, and when I got out, a beauty asked me if I had ignition cables. She said she wanted to return the car to her ex so she could leave for Houston. So I told her that I would give her a lift in Houston, started her car and followed her to her ex, where she left the car and moved in with us. Now I had two women in my car and they were super.
On the way to Houston, we stopped for lunch, ate and checked into a motel. I asked the guy in the motel, "Do you have a room with a large bed?" The two little ones pushed together were the best he had to offer. The girls helped me move the beds! I didn't ask if they liked it, I just took it upon myself and assumed that they would both sleep with me. And so it was.
In addition, the woman I photographed at the gas station was twice as good in bed as the first one, so I told her to wait in the room. Then I went downstairs and told the clerk that it would take me 4 hours to get rid of the other and return, and asked him to let her stay in the room. He agreed, so I took another and we off. When I was driving her home, she asked if I was leaving her, and I said yes. I said, "I'm sorry, but this new one is better in bed." She started crying and begging me to give her another chance. Why did I do this to her? She got what she deserved for taking off her shirt first and flirting with the truckers.
Okay, now let's talk a little about a special breed of women that I call Leeches. Leeches are jealous, insecure and possessive. They don't want you to look at other women, they want you to be with them, and they are very vulnerable. Leeches can be handled in two ways.
At the beginning of a relationship, I tell the leech that I'm the guy who needs to be surrounded by women. I tell them that women are like flowers to me, and I should be in a florist shop. Can you handle it if I sleep with the other? I say that I need to sleep with others. If she gives up and says yes, you did it right. If she says no, leave her. You'd be better off without her. I like to be honest with them to avoid crap later.
You will find that leeches will be accepted if you sleep with others, if you tell them that you sleep with others. This is because their worst nightmare is not whether you sleep with others, but that they don’t know about it. They find this ignorance so terrible that telling them the truth beforehand is to calm them down.
There are tons of tricks to keep in line. I always love it when a woman licks my sphincter, because it gives me a huge advantage in a relationship. From that moment, when she starts to strain me, I just say "The woman who licks my ass doesn't talk to me like that!" This is much better than a punch in the nose! What can she answer? What am I a pig? Hey, it wasn't my language there!
I want you to imagine a room that has a double-barreled gun, a machete, a submachine gun, some dynamite, a few pistols, and the word friend. Because the word “friend” is one of its main tools. This is the only weapon that can make you dance!
Now I know a lot of guys who want to go out with a woman and pretend to be their friends, stalk them and go shopping with them. I knew a guy who flew halfway across the world to be that kind of friend. And he watched her preen herself to go out and sleep with the others, and he couldn't help it because they were "friends." Of course, he was secretly "in love" with her, but he was afraid to be himself, I suppose. I am glad that there are many like him in the world, because that means more women to me!
Here is a problem that many of you have. You are talking about partnership. You talk about wanting to have a relationship with a woman, and then talk about beauties, and how many you may or may not get. What do you want? You have to follow the Road of Certainty. You need to be congruent with whatever you want, especially with women.
When I was looking for a wife, I got a wife, children, and that was what I wanted. And when I wanted to be alone, I didn't look for Miss Perfect. I didn't think about anything but fucking.
In fact, fucking was my hobby. Different bodies, different styles, different ways. When I was young, I had an obsessive fantasy of filming a hitchhiker. And I did it. I took off the hitchhikers. I told them, “I can't believe it! I dreamed of just such a situation! Everything you say is exactly what I fantasized about! It's so cool!" They said: "Really ?!" They were amazed!
I got so bored and so easy that I started telling women that I work for the CIA. The danger turns them on. I used to say "Call me from the phone booth, and whatever you do, DO NOT call me from home!" One of the women was waiting for me in the booth for four hours in a row.
Once I had a date with a woman who seemed very nice and nice on the phone, but as soon as she climbed into my car, she began to tell me her schedule. She needed to get to a restaurant in this part of the city, and her friends would be there, and then we’ll go back there and there and go to the hotel, we’ll stay there so much and so much, and then to this club and so on. I said, "Did you feel it?" She said that?". I said, "Something unusual is happening with my car." She: "Hmm?" I leaned over it and said: "Come out and see what's with the rear wheel, and tell me if it's blown away." She gets out of the car and says: "I think it's okay." And me: "Well, for you, maybe so!" and squeeze out the gas. Because if I drove her all night as she wanted, I would be her eternal puppy. And I don't wear a leash for anyone.
When it comes to women, never underestimate the power of denial. He drinks, he is angry, cruel, treats her like shit, and even then she can convince herself that he loves her, and she stays. In fact, women want to lie to themselves about the men they live with. Guys do that too, but in this case the women are definitely overplaying us. She stays for his strength, for the sense of security she has with him. I never would have thought of hurting a woman physically, I never hit a woman. I don't need it. I hit them with honesty, trust and respect, and that works much better than a punch in the nose.
If you offend a girl with your excessive honesty and you feel that her arousal is subsiding, this should be done. One way is to say, “I'm kidding! I'm kidding!" and at first she will calm down and say something like "It was very rude", and then I lower my voice and say "Well, I really wasn't joking." (Laughter). You can test them as they test you. "Do you want to fuck?" and if she answers positively, take her home, and if she gets horny, you say that you are just joking. Although … no. I am not kidding! You can always resort to this. Just kidding … not really! You are always in control of the situation. Control is vital. If she says, "Get the fuck off me," leave. I find that when you go out into the real world and start being honest, you are rarely rejected.
Women are raised to punish you when you misbehave. They punish with bitch behavior and withholding sex. If they try to punish me, I immediately take control of the situation. "You're right, honey, I'm a pig, an asshole, a cocksucker, a slug, a slippery guy, a piece of shit, a narcissistic evil freak." By spurring on her "bad" behavior, I take it under control. I do not argue with them, because either with me or with a tablecloth a path. If you get into a defensive posture, you actually lose control.
If the relationship starts to deteriorate, because sex isn't worth crap, don't waste time fixing them, just walk away. Do not waste your time. When your car gives you a bunch of problems and you get sick of fixing it, do you argue with it for 8 months just to see if it gets better over time? You stop investing time and money in this car and start investing energy in finding something better.
We all have different levels of tolerance for how much shit we're willing to take in a relationship. This level is low for me. I want what I want and I am not ashamed of it.
