People with an iron inner core are able to withstand any difficulties in life and not break. How to grow an inner core and not deviate from your principles?
The inner core of a person, a strong personality - these words describe the structure of a person who is strong and self-confident. The inner core helps a person to withstand life's difficulties, not to break down, to find the strength to continue the struggle and not to deviate from their principles.
It all depends on the strength of a person depends on the strength of his inner core, his ability to accept and analyze negative experiences. If a person is weak, then he cannot bear a large share of the negative, begins to break down, becomes even more weakened, considers himself a victim and in every possible way helps to keep and strengthen this image.
People with a strong inner core, when difficulties arise, ask themselves questions about why they fell to their lot, what they should do in order to benefit from this for themselves. They accept life as it is, without crying or suffering.
However, all this is not given to them at birth; a person grows a core in himself, constantly strengthening it. This is a difficult path, but it is worth taking it in order to be a strong and self-sufficient person.
So what should you do in order to grow your inner core?
Firstly, you should not shift the responsibility for what happened to someone else, everyone is responsible for everything only himself. It is important to understand that all the events that happened and that will happen to you are the result of your choice. When we shift responsibility for our words, actions, deeds, thoughts, etc. on someone, it weakens us, destroys the core. The same thing happens if we let anger control us.
Secondly, you need to believe in yourself, in your strengths and ability to cope with difficulties. It is important to accept yourself as you really are, with all your advantages and disadvantages, thoughts, desires and actions. By flaunting only that part of ourselves that seems good and pleasant to us, we devalue ourselves as a person, fall apart, cease to be whole. Dependence on other people's opinions, worrying about how we look in the eyes of strangers - also contributes to wasting oneself, distorting and weakening the inner core.
Thirdly, you should not strive to do everything as quickly as possible. Before embarking on the path of correction, you should prepare, ask yourself what needs to be done, what should be done and what should not. It is also important to comprehend your environment, do all people have a positive effect on us, or is it worthwhile to reduce or even stop communication with someone?
Growing the inner core is a long and painstaking process, but worth it.
