Sometimes you have to apologize. Not the most pleasant procedure, agree? It is also necessary to apologize correctly, otherwise there will be no result!
Each of us in our life has apologized to someone, and more than once. Not the most pleasant procedure, agree? Especially if it doesn't work. It is also necessary to apologize correctly, and how to do it, read below.
Before apologizing directly, the offended must be slightly “warmed up”. To do this, send this person a letter, postcard, email, whatever, with an apology. After reading the message, he certainly will not forgive you, but he will be prepared and appreciate the persistence.
It is not recommended to be wise in apologies. But the attitude is too simple - too. Of course, sometimes one simple “sorry” is enough, but more often than not it is not. It is better to attach a bouquet of roses to the words at the meeting (if you need to apologize to the girl) or a small present (if you need to apologize to the man).
Do not forget about the phrase "Sorry, I was wrong." As a rule, admitting that you are wrong is very effective. Under no circumstances deny the fact that you have something to apologize for.
If the person doesn't accept your apology, they should stop. Just wait a couple of days, see how things go. It is possible that the person who accepted the apology realizes that a “second chance” must be given.
It is strongly not recommended to make excuses too much. It is enough to limit ourselves to the phrase “Something has come over me”.
Don't say "This won't happen again."
Suggest a way to fix this. This will show that you are not indifferent to the relationship with the person. Please note that you should make the proposal, and not ask "How can I fix this?" Good luck!
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