You finally decided that the time you spend with your girlfriend is too little and now you live under the same roof. What should you prepare for?
Should I go to a cold apartment, to an empty refrigerator, or is it better to find a hot bath, tender body and breakfast in bed? Oh, this problem of choice! The film "Handsome Alfie or What Men Want"
How beautiful it all began: meetings, dates, flowers, kisses, walks around the city at night, seeing off home. And then you suddenly realized that this is not enough for you, or rather the time that you spend together. It was at about this moment that you had the idea that, like, it’s time to cross the line of simply meeting for permanent housing together. Well, not a bad idea at all.
The beginning of your life together will be twofold. On the one hand: "The first pancake is always lumpy." This I mean that some everyday things in life will sometimes become problematic for you. Well, for example, to go to the toilet, take off your shoes after a morning jog or a very difficult day, because socks do not always smell like "French scents." On the other hand: a lot of things in our life have a good start. This is both the novelty of your relationship, which will imperceptibly flow into a new channel, and the feeling that your passion will now spend more time with you than before, and sex will be much more frequent. We have already heard from scientists that regular sex is the main reason for your desire to live under the same roof with a girl. Undoubtedly, there is something to envy, especially the presence of a woman's hand in the kitchen, and indeed in the house, cannot but rejoice.
Therefore, in order to maintain a normal relationship with a girl, after you start living together, you should adhere to some framework.
- Realize that now you do not live alone, and therefore scattered clothes, and especially socks under the bed or in some other secret place, will not delight your partner.
Then Romeo and Juliet. It turns out it's good that they died. After all, they have overcome so much for the sake of their love. Would her love, say, have withstood if she knew that he was saying “ringing”? Or that he throws socks all over the apartment? Film "What Men Talk About"
If you are too lazy to wash your laundry, then at least throw it in the laundry basket, your girlfriend knows what to do with it.
- Try not to quarrel with your darling over trifles - before you could leave after a quarrel and not call for several days, disappearing in clubs, or simply be tormented in doubts whether you did the right thing. And now, in fact, leaving is not the best option, especially since you have a common living area. Well, if you just scatter to different rooms. Although you can still run away to friends - but the consequences then may not be the best (who knows what your girlfriend will think, where you were and with whom).
- Give each other personal space. It is not necessary everywhere and is always there. You need to be able to rest from each other, but in decent ways. Let there be freedom on the Internet, meeting friends on your side, with friends on her side. And sometimes any person wants to be alone - you do not need to exclude this from your life. By the way, about the computer, there should be at least two of them, in order to avoid quarrels over such a trifle.
- If your girlfriend starts talking about a wedding and similar things, it is better not to be silent, do not ignore it. And someone who knows what is on her mind: she will think that you do not take her seriously, that you do not want a family and everything like that. It will be better if you answer such questions, relying on the future, on the time that must pass before you decide to take such a step.
We know that this is the most difficult topic for conversation, but how to explain to her what the heroes of the film "What Men Talk About" said well: possibilities. Perhaps I would not have used it, but there should be an opportunity …
Although, on the other hand, tell me how much you can fool the head of a girl you really love?
- Invite your mutual friends to visit you, introduce her to your friends. Go visit yourself. This will diversify your life, and you will always know your girlfriend's friends and girlfriends, and with advice they will be able to help if unpleasant situations suddenly arise in your relationship.
- Try to do things together more. For example, going shopping together, cooking dinner, renovating, planning a holiday. This way you can get to know each other even better. The joint solution of any issues is good for any couple in love.
- To avoid getting bored with sex, practice not only at home. In a restaurant toilet, in a car, in places where you often go and have a good time.
When you have lived together for at least six months, the time to get used to each other in the same home passes. It is then that routine and everyday life can begin to step on your heels. Sometimes you want to shout: "I'm tired of everything!", And run somewhere headlong. Here the possibility of parting is very great. If you really want to break up with your girlfriend, then just do everything that is written above exactly the opposite. You will be assured of success within a week. But, if you realized that with this woman you want to create a real family, raise children and meet old age together - then do not fill your head with all sorts of annoying thoughts and turn your routine life into real adventures, in the end, who is the master of your fate if not you?
And yet, starting to live with your chosen one is a serious step, but you are hardly afraid of difficulties. Good luck to you!