Unlike men, women have their own, incomprehensible reasons for postponing or even refusing to have sex.
For men, everything is always simple and clear, both in life itself and in its components: in relationships, love, sex. And with us, women, it's more difficult. But it's worth it.
Probably, sex is the only thing that can unite a woman and a man so sincerely and unequivocally. Only in him can one recognize the real side of a person, reveal his essence and penetrate into the den of the human soul and body, which is also important. Sometimes it seems that men have no reason to refuse a woman sex, however, this is not the case. Although only males can boast of their inexhaustible, driving forces of sexuality and like a constant lack of sex.
Unlike men, women have their own, incomprehensible reasons for postponing or even refusing to have sex. Of course, in most cases they are strictly individual, but the bulk of the excuses are equated with those generally accepted in the female world. Surely, the most depressing phrase for men is: "I have a headache." Save your lady, give her a headache pill, call an ambulance (which she will most likely refuse). As practice shows, in most cases this excuse is fake, since the reason for refusing sex lies in something else, which your passion does not want to tell you about. But in no case, do not tell your girlfriend about this, it will not lead to anything good, and sex, thus, you will never wait. It is better to wait in such a situation, perhaps to have a heart-to-heart talk after a while.
The second most popular excuse among our sex is an excuse that tells about the onset of menstruation. Yes, you can't argue against that, men will think. Of course, you will not argue, but it will not be superfluous to check it. The easiest way is to get into a girl's panties, where everything secret will become clear. You can also watch the pads or tampons disappear (depending on where she keeps them: in her purse or in your bathroom if you live together). If your fears were confirmed, and you caught your girlfriend in a lie, then the surest way to show your resentment is to have sex with her at the same moment, and then slyly to say so after sex: “Well, thanks to me, your period is over!"
There are girls who honestly say that they just do not want to have sex today, at this hour and at this very minute. In this case, you can gently and tenderly bring the girl to the onset of the period of "wanting" you and hard, even non-binding sex. Here everything and everyone will be helpers: words, gestures, hands, lips, and finally, your brain. However, if you know or just suspect that your girlfriend is tired, for example, after a hard day or work, then in such a situation it is better to refrain from sex and reschedule this activity to another day, and instead engage in more relaxing activities.
Still, men are an interesting "people". It happens that you hint to them, you hint, then you say openly that this is not worth doing, you try to help in finding a passion for happiness in your personal life, but they still make mistake after mistake, after which they have to apologize to the woman: find the right words, give flowers and smile sweetly.
