Centuries have passed, but formed by millennia, male and female instincts have not disappeared anywhere and continue to live in us …
In prehistoric times, males of homo sapiens hunted, and females hunted. It's the XXI century, but male and female instincts have not disappeared anywhere.
The man sees the goal right in front of him, the secondary details do not interest him. A woman pays attention to little things more often, her peripheral vision is better developed. A man can spend the whole day in soiled trousers and not even notice the embarrassment - for the women around him, this only causes a sweet smile. But if a woman on the first date disperses arrows on tights, then this is a real tragedy! A man who does not understand anything will then rack his brains for a long time - what did he say or did that the passion suddenly blushed, invented some stupid excuse and disappeared.
Upon entering the room, a man always sits down to the door, facing or at least sideways. That's right: if an enemy comes into the cave, encroaching on prey, the male must be the first to find him and kill him. When a man walks down the street and feels that someone is breathing down his back, he instinctively clenches his fists and turns around. A man clenches his fists even if he sees a group of other unfamiliar men standing nearby, even if they look quite peaceful.
To this day, women love to touch small objects in their hands - buttons, shreds, cutlery, jewelry, fishing out the best from the common heap.
A typical picture in the vegetable section of a supermarket: customers of all ages and classes crowd around a container with some penny beets, swear, shove, strive to snatch the products they like from each other. If the hour of the pre-holiday sale in an elite boutique has struck, then a general squabble can lead to torn hair and scratched faces. It is better for a man not to bother - otherwise all women instantly unite and begin to mutuz him alone.
The love of men for all kinds of games and sports entertainment should not be explained by mere infantilism. The game is a training session before a real fight, even if it never takes place, and a simulation of the same hunt. Women prefer to pamper themselves with shopping, and these are clear echoes of primitive gathering - to go around all the nearby shops, turn everything, measure it, feel it, and then return home and declare: there is nothing in the stores. This means that the woman not only satisfied her internal, purely female needs, but also fulfilled her duty to her relatives - she surveyed the territory and reported on the wasted time.
Women who, by hook or by crook, make their way to secular parties and shoot their eyes in all directions, are also called hunters. But they only hunt not for men, but for their tight wallets. It is rather collecting - the more wealthy admirers a woman has, the more she will get from them the coveted bumazies with numbers. And one more thing: if a fairy godmother flies to the average woman and gives her a constantly updated wardrobe with the most expensive, sophisticated and sexy outfits, but at the same time demands to completely abandon sex, the woman will not hesitate for a second - of course, she will prefer outfits.
Nowadays, hunting instincts can play a cruel joke with a man. There is no need to get food at the risk of life, most males do not have to perform feats in the name of the family or homeland, it is not even necessary to put everyone on the shoulder blades and shoot everybody accurately - and the last squishy bespectacled man always has a chance to win a woman, even a modest one. nondescript librarian. A man begins to be lazy, shallow, weaken - not only in body, but above all in spirit. Another point is that the man is focused exclusively on the result. If the desired result is not achieved, the man falls into despair, loses his sense of confidence, becomes isolated in his complexes, and in his old age reproaches himself for the aimlessly spent years - life really passed by, because the man overlooked and ignored everything good, light and joyful.
It is useless to suppress instincts - they have been formed for millennia. But it is necessary to control - we are not animals.
And also men and women should respect the differences in behavior of both - after all, by nature itself, they are predetermined to conduct a joint household.
That is, to engage in hunting and gathering, albeit in a modern way.
