I do not want and I can not
I do not want and I can not

In today's information-saturated times, almost every second patient of urologists or sexologists is a man under 25 years old.

Doctor urologist-andrologist, candidate of medical sciences, chief physician of the medical center "Biomed" Yaroslav Guley

Despite the huge amount of publicly available information, the "sex question", like a hundred years ago, remains the most difficult topic for patients. And although a decrease in sexual desire or a weakening of an erection are not fatal conditions, nevertheless, the quality of life is drastically reduced.

As in that joke, when the doctor says to the patient:

- Now you shouldn't have sex under any circumstances!

- But will I live?

- Yes … Why?

However, today science has stepped forward so far that potency problems are successfully solved in 100% of cases. Even the term "impotence", which is already considered politically incorrect, had to be abolished. Now this condition is referred to as "erectile dysfunction" - the inability of a man to achieve and / or maintain an erection at a level that allows him to conduct and complete intercourse.

Today, the main thing is to honestly answer to yourself that there is a problem, and not hesitate to go to the doctor's office. Even in the most seemingly hopeless cases, surgery, possibly with the use of implants, will help. For most, drug therapy is sufficient. And sometimes you can get by with a few conversations with a psychologist - as a rule, this helps young patients. Indeed, today, more and more often, young people are turning to doctors with complaints of inability to have sexual intercourse.

Love the first time

Even 10-20 years ago (not to mention much earlier times, when even the most liberated representatives of both sexes did not dare to dream of a sexual revolution), no one heard about the sexual impotence of young men. Because this phenomenon was simply not observed among healthy guys with their natural hypersexuality.

In the current information oversaturated times, almost every second patient of urologists or sexologists is a man under 25 years old. These are mainly those brought by mothers or girlfriends. The rest suffer in silence. However, if the first time ended in failure, this state can gain a foothold in the subconscious, and the body will “play” this scenario every time at the physiological level. To break the vicious circle, you need to see a specialist.

The total "show off sexuality" seems to oblige young men to have an early start to sexual activity, although they are not yet ready for this - first of all, morally. Today's high school students are more childish than their peers 20 years ago, and many guys would willingly postpone their sexual victories for another couple of years. However, at the age of 15-16 now "you need to become a man", but this experience often ends in a complete fiasco.

The most common situation: a boy and a girl meet, they have a great relationship, they are in love with each other. But the first intimacy is unsuccessful - an erection first occurs, but disappears during intercourse. Most often, it disappears along with a feeling of confidence, and confidence is lost first. As a rule, such a young couple does not have appropriate conditions, a comfortable environment. Added to the fear of failure is the anxiety caused by the possible appearance of parents or acquaintances.

In young people, erectile dysfunction in the overwhelming majority of cases is of a psychogenic nature (sometimes the cause is congenital vascular pathology). In the first case, 2-3 visits to a sex therapist are often enough to forget about the problem forever. Additionally, drug treatment may be prescribed to "insure" the success. It will definitely come, but at the same time it is still worth taking care of comfortable conditions, mutual consent and contraception, so that disturbing thoughts about unwanted pregnancy or the possibility of contracting sexually transmitted infections do not interfere.

Illness from pleasure

Even condom advertising has already been categorized as social advertising. The issue of hygiene in intimate relationships is acute at the level of the whole society, but, nevertheless, the number of sexually transmitted diseases (abbreviated as STDs) is growing rapidly from year to year. Perhaps the eternal Slavic swagger does not allow "real men" to stoop to using condoms, but the facts are as follows: it is the transferred STDs that in most cases lead to the extinction of desire and a decrease in potency in the prime of life - 35-45 years.

Often the symptoms of STDs in men are mild. A small rash may appear, which soon disappears - and, naturally, no one goes to the doctor. But the disease, meanwhile, progresses, affects the internal organs, and the chain of consequences looks depressing: decreased libido - erectile dysfunction - infertility.

The point is that a man without serious health problems normally retains attraction, potency, and even the ability to conceive to a ripe old age. If malfunctions occur, then it is necessary to consult a doctor: there may be an undetected disease. Simple analyzes, appropriate therapy - and life will again be filled with all the colors. In any case, every man over 30 should undergo a preventive examination by a urologist once a year in order to insure himself against unpleasant surprises.

There are also diseases that lead to disorders in the genital area. The most insidious are diabetes mellitus, various neurological disorders, inflammatory diseases of the genitourinary system (urethritis, prostatitis, etc.), liver diseases and other endocrine diseases. Damage to the cardiovascular system causes disturbances in the blood supply to the penis, especially negatively affects the potency of atherosclerosis. Such patients, in addition to visits to their attending physician, also need to visit a urologist. There are techniques that work perfectly (including drug therapy) that help to have a full sex life under any circumstances.

Everything will be OK!
Everything will be OK!

Photo: Vincent Boiteau flickr.com/2dogs_productions So if the slender beautiful blondes passing by do not make you feel in awe, and this has been happening for at least a month; if you still decide on sexual contact, but it ends in failure, you do not need to say to yourself: “Well, okay! After all, there are theaters, books, movies …”Go to the doctor. And soon you will be able to say: “Well, what a great thing that there is still good old sex in the world, which no cinema can replace. Even in 4D "!

Photo: Karoly Czifra flickr.com/ckaroli

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