When you hear the fatal female phrase: “let's stay friends” you should not count “everything, there will be no kin” and run to sleep with her girlfriends.
It's brilliant … Think about it!
If these words are said by a man to a woman, then there will definitely not be a relationship. This means: "You are interesting to me as an interlocutor, but no more." Because a man's love begins with sexual attraction. A woman attracts, first of all, with her appearance, if this is not the case from the very beginning, he will not be. And wasting your time and energy on this person is stupid. There is no point in deceiving yourself. Such a relationship is offensive to a self-respecting Lady.
This is nature. They made us that way. This is what is natural. We and our society have already perverted ourselves.
But, if such words are heard from the lips of a lady … then everything is absolutely the opposite
A woman evaluates a man first at the level of values. This is a normal "compatibility" test. A woman is looking for the best for herself. She knows that she has a huge treasure (loyalty, humility, the ability to serve, love, care, accept and believe), and all this should go in its pure form exclusively to the “best man”. Therefore, he immediately checks a man for his intellectual, emotional, spiritual attractiveness. If she sees a friend in a man, that's good. For her, this means that "I like you, you have every chance of winning me, if only you prove to me how much I am valuable to you!" All perfectly! Sex for a woman - in the last place, at least, should be, according to their nature. But we know!
We judge by ourselves. What is good for me is good for my beloved. Well, well … It is good for a man when he is allowed to deal with his problems on his own. And for a woman this is not normal!
It is good for a woman when she is taken care of, looked after, and performed feats for her. Small ones - like preparing a bath with rose petals, aromatic oils and foam by candlelight, and huge ones - to realize her dream and take her to Venice.
It is not normal for a man when she is too active in his direction.
It's nice when loved ones show at least a little respect for your nature and essence and show a desire to understand it. Just so as not to hurt you. After all, it is such nonsense to hurt a dear and close person …
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